why does my bf come so soon?

Question

everytime my new bf an i have sex, he always "cums" really realy soon, like after 1 min soon! its bad for me cause sex doesnt last long with him and it doesn't feel good when he comes so quickly

This is a serious question, please respond with serious answers

Answer 1

Look babe here is the answer your b/f is too intent on getting in and pounding it. Slow him down and make him change positions a lot it will make him build up slower. Me sometime when i am hitting it and feel myself getting ready to come a little too soon I pull out and change positions and it works everytime. I make her change positions or maybe l go down and lick it a little and then go back to work and l can do this until l get tired or just say ok l have done this long enough and is ready to come.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

I''ve usually *** pretty quickly the first time too. I rarely last more than 20 mins. Usually I either have the girl blow me to get the first nut out of the way or jack off earlier that evening. After the first I'm good for much longer. As long he can keep it hard just suck the first one (shouldn't take long) then a keep at it for a couple more second to get him hard. Then climb on and ride it like the cowgirl you are. ;)

Answer 4

A lot of guys get so excited by sex that they *** right away. Although its a huge compliment it really sucks for a girl. Answer is to make him pay attention to your body before intercourse. this will arouse you and slow him down at the same time. A little foreplay goes a long way. Also nothing wrong with telling him to slow down while hes inside you. GUys dont mind instruction as long as its given with a sexy smile. Simply tell him your enjoying it so much that you want to stretch it out as long as possible. He'll be your slave forever

Answer 5

Maybe your too good at sex, lay off a bit and let him do more of the work. If need be you may want to try finding a boy friend who has a good "track" record with this kind of thing. It sounds like those guys really have it bad thought.

Answer 6

Hon some guys are just that way - they just get really exited. If this is the one for you and you are really serious about him, you will probably need to work on some foreplay first. This will release some of your frustration.

Answer 7

its probably because the relationship is new and he hasnt gotten use to being with you sexually or for that matter he could be new to sex that could make him cuum faster. try getting him to masturbate before you guys have sex and if he gets overly excited when you guys are gonna do i ty doing alot of four play to take his mind off the sex part maybe it will stop him from ***'n so quick.

Answer 8

You and ten million other women ask this same question at least once in their lifetime.
Slow down........spend more time with foreplay. Most men will "***" quicker when using missionary position......try getting on top. Practice, practice, practice.......it takes time to learn control.

Answer 9

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Answer 10

Not to brag, but I can come 2-3 times during our session*, and still maintain an erection. If I slacken a bit, I pleasure my lover with my hands or mouth. I keep myself stimulated through fantasy and seeing the pleasure of my partner as I continue to satisfy their needs. You might encourage him to keep himself stimulated and active, so you have some good times too. He could try masturbation right before intercourse, so he prolongs his next erection, or maybe try toys on you and initiate intercourse just as you're good to go. :)

* (after some effort to control my releases, BTW)