why does my bf bust really soon?

Question

everytime my new bf an i have sex, he always "cums" really realy soon, like after 1 min soon! its bad for me cause sex doesnt last long with him and it doesn't feel good when he comes so quickly

This is a serious question, please respond with serious answers

Answer 1

Try the squeeze technique on him. That usually will cure him of his premature ejaculation problem. The technique can be found at most adult sites. It should improve the pleasure for both of you.

Answer 2

There are a few reasons why this could be happening. Age, maturity, level of excitement, or it could be pre-mature ejaculation. If this has become an issue for you and you are not happy, you could try talking to him about this. There are ways to go about it sensitively, as you do not want to hurt his pride. You could maybe tell him that you want to see how long the TWO of you can hold out on orgasm -- but make it like a game--make it fun. If you are comfortable with being playful with him, you could try telling him he's not allowed to *** until you say so. And then maybe try teasing him. You be on top and take "it" out before he has a chance to finsih and then put "it" back in. This way you have more control over the timing. He might find the aggression quite hot. I hope this helps somewhat. Good luck.

Answer 3

Usually due to two reasons - physically and mentally. Usually guys that work out, are in good physical shape, athletes will last longer but it's in 'combination' with mental toughness. They have to want to 'hold off' and please you as well. It's not always one for one of course but normally, your bf should be able to 'wait' or hold off until there's more action between you too. The other option could be - lack of self-confidence. THAT will make him bust really, really soon!

Answer 4

Wait until you get married to him to have sex. Then, it will take him a lot longer to finish. Maybe hours. This is due to several reasons. First, you will likely gain about 35 pounds. Then, if you are like most married women, you will stop wanting to have sex and you will wear grandmaw type pajamas. If you have a tattoo, it will be all stretched out of shape and everything. And, he will be too tired from working. So, just marry him - that will solve it.

Answer 5

well your boyfreind is a premature ejaculater its a person who cums really quiclky with the slightest of sexual felling its best to see a doctor about the problem and he would refer you to a place that can fix your b/fs problem

Answer 6

answering why is giong to be pretty hard for us guys in here...
try to search on "Keggels" or google or Yahoo it'll get you some exercises which he can do to improve his busting time

it takes time 2-3 weeks to see good results.

Answer 7

Two words...premature ejaculation. Have him go to a urologist and see what kind of treatments he can obtain so he can last longer. I'm sorry for your situation. That must suck.

Answer 8

Because you're SO damn sexy honey - you're so hot, I'm surprised he doesn't splooge at the mere SIGHT of your sexy self!

I dunno, does he have a proper diet and take care of himself? Or maybe there is something going on UPSTAIRS.

Have him think about baseball when he's doing you. That's a time-tested method.

Love, Jack.

Answer 9

get him to play with you a long time before he enters you, use toys if you like, and get something called prolong, that slightly numbs him so it takes more stimulation for him to get off.

Answer 10

my hubby has the same prob. we use a bunch of anti sensative gels and creams etc its just maybe cuz he likes it so much