if you recevied alot alot of money from a accident that WAS NOT YOUR FAULT,and you have permanent damage but the other person you wrecked with died, is it wrong to use it......wouldn't you feel bad about using it. Say it is like way more than $300,000.
2006-09-08 15:51:51 · 23 answers · asked by na nah 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
to me its a serious question...cause i dont want any stupid answers, the girl was only 16 yrs old and shes dead. It was just a bad decision she made while driving that cost her life. And I dont want her family to see me driving around in new car at the cost of their daughters life. We live in a small town and we know everyone
2006-09-08 15:58:13 · update #1
I didnt know the girl but my parents knew hers, she was 16 and I am 25...we were not in the same car!
2006-09-08 17:20:09 · update #2
If this other person was a good friend, go to her Mother and ask if there is something you can do for the family. maybe pay for the funeral or give them a small vacation. I lost a son in an accident, and the insurance didn't cover the funeral, so don't assume it will. The family will love you for ever for this small gesture, and they probably won't even want your money.
2006-09-08 16:05:18 · answer #1 · answered by justme 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is so sad. You have nothing to feel guilty about. It is tragick that the girl lost her life, but if the accident was clearly her fault, then how can her parents blame you for spending the money the way you see fit? I know it's a hard decision and you want to consider the girl's parents, but you need to live your own life as well. Good luck and God bless.
2006-09-08 20:59:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it will make you feel better, take some of that money, and set it in a scholarship. What did she want to go to college for? set it up for someone who is going in that field.
I can honestly say I have no idea if I would feel bad or not about using the money. But you are here, and you probably still have medical bills. Or will have. $300,000 in today's money is not a whole lot,6 years income, maybe. If you did nothing now with it, maybe something will come later that will feel right for you. Good luck to you.
2006-09-08 16:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by Mimiat41 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Donate some of the settlement money to a charity in the decease's name. No I wouldn't feel bad about using the money but I would feel bad about the death that occurred. You are still
alive and you still have to live. Hopefully the person who died had
life insurance and the survivors are doing okay.
2006-09-08 15:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by Precious Gem 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would imagine that if you received some money that the family of the deceased received money also. Don't go nuts with it and use it wisely. Are you close to the decease's family? If so, go over and talk with them and let them know how you are feeling.
Make a donation to a charity in the persons name. Don't feel guilty, you are blessed to be alive.
2006-09-08 17:16:45 · answer #5 · answered by morris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have permanent damage you may need it, but do some of this money to help others in need in the other person who passed name. Don't the insurance company give the deceased person's family money also?
2006-09-08 16:00:44 · answer #6 · answered by koni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have permanent damage then don't use it for an expensive car you will need it later. If there is no permanent damage why would you be getting their much money. But if you feel guilty use the money for something altruistic.
2006-09-08 16:07:36 · answer #7 · answered by Cali Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 12:07:40 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered talking to the girl's family to see what they may want to do with some of the money? I am sure they got some for her death as well, but likely not as much as a survivor. Maybe if you approach them they will ease your "guilt" about spending it, if you have their blessing.
2006-09-08 16:01:31 · answer #9 · answered by VNCGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it would make you feel better, make a donation to a charity with some of the money in the name of the person who died.
2006-09-08 15:53:47 · answer #10 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋