well im a virgan an my boy friend is not an i just moved far away from him and i trust him but i cant help but wounder .i told him that im remaining a virgan until i get married .and he said he under stood and that he loves and that he's gona wait until we get married.but were only 15&16 how long can he wait ? i can't help but to wonder?
2006-09-08 15:45:23 · 10 answers · asked by light_beautiy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
A fact of life is that not many boys, 16, are willing or will abstain for years. Its just not in their nature especially if they already have been exposed to the "good times". It probably doesn't mean he doesn't mean well with you. You will either have to accept him running around or not. Either way, there is nothing you can do about it except worry. Both of you are too young to be making promises for later in life. Also, you DO need to be worried about him contracting STVDs. Some are deadly. Pops
2006-09-08 15:51:05 · answer #1 · answered by Pops 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say that you are 15 and 16 years of age so I am going to say that in my opinion this is too young to even be thinking about intimacy. It is also unrealistic to plan who your spouse will be. Just take one day at a time and remain friends with him through letters or over the phone. In the meantime get out and enjoy your teen years. Have fun call your girlfriends
2006-09-08 22:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by dwheel820 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question: were only 15&16 how long can he wait?
Answer: when everybody laughs at a woman being raped by a whole bunch of clowns.
2006-09-08 22:48:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats your choice, but may not be wise at your age.
U both should sow your wow oats before marriage.
U both may have lots of lovers before marriage.
This virgin stuff. we all said that, but grandma always said to try before u buy, and if it dont fit, take it back
2006-09-08 22:50:50 · answer #4 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that at his age, it's unrealistic to think that he will remain faithful to a long distance relationship.
2006-09-08 22:48:48 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not going 2 wait he's playin with ur mind
2006-09-08 22:48:24 · answer #6 · answered by Roxxie_411 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him... youll be devastated once you find out that he has cheated on you! I know from experience, trust me!
2006-09-08 22:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by *·.·´¯`·.·* jay *·.·´¯`·.·* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really think you two are going to stay together? Not gonna happen
2006-09-08 22:48:58 · answer #8 · answered by Tim 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's doing your ex best friend back home sorry
2006-09-08 23:46:43 · answer #9 · answered by stevens_monroe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not at all
2006-09-08 22:47:15 · answer #10 · answered by Wynekia S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋