ok i am a cheerleader,, i wear Abercrombie,,Hollister,,and stuff but i am kinda SHY..i dont wanna be shy ne more so help me...please?..
2006-09-08 15:43:14 · 21 answers · asked by AbercrombieROXx33 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
All those things don't make popularity- your personality does. If you become popular because of you being a cheerleader, and wearing brand name clothes, you won't be really happy. I've been there before. People that like you because you are you and not because of what you wear are the truly "populars at heart" and TRUE FRIENDS.
2006-09-08 15:47:36 · answer #1 · answered by kaykay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, it isn't what is on the outside. Your clothes won't make you popular. You can have all the latest and still be unliked. To be liked , and this comes from The rich and famous Dale Carnegie, you have to take a sincere interest in people. You have to come out of your comfort zone , little by little. Start small-say with one person you think you could get to and would like to know. Please forget about what you are wearing-it won't do the trick! Also , you have to watch the movie "Can't Buy Me Love". Awesome movie that will make you understand, plus it has that really cute doctor from Gray's Anatomy (much younger , of course). You have to see the movfrom the late '80's.
2006-09-08 15:51:52 · answer #2 · answered by shane k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being popular isnt always the best thing. Having a solid group of close friends and knowing that they are there for you is better than being friends with everybody even the people that start rumors.
2006-09-08 15:53:35 · answer #3 · answered by monkeyshopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be like me! but only if u want to....lol.i mean i not a cheerleader....or wear all those clothes that u wear, but the so called "populars"in our world tend to talk to me ALOT because i'm very outspoken!!and very very truthfull.(in a good way)but well thats just me!!!!.......i guess?or just find somthing ur good at and that they have in common and make a conversation on that particular topic.well i hope i kinda helped......right?
2006-09-08 15:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by Fishaay™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with ur more out going friend and do not only be friends with the cheerleaders and the cool kids be friends with everybody the geeks, the losers and try to say hi to many ppl that will expand ur horizon u 'll make more friends and every one will no that no every cheerleader is a ***** (no offense)
2006-09-08 16:04:04 · answer #5 · answered by Make Love Not War! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about being popular..... having a few good friends is a lot better than having a bunch of friends that only like you because you wear the right clothes or look & act a certain way.
2006-09-08 15:47:11 · answer #6 · answered by classic_tigger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Be Confident With Who U are talk to everyone and just be the best person u can be dont worry about other's but make sure its u and ur not being FAKE
2006-09-09 07:59:34 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ChRiSbRoWn_LOVER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, being popular really isn't all its cracked up to be,I tried for years to be popular,when I finally made it I found that my new friends were only interested in being dorkes and it ruined my life,don't change who you are for everyone els. If you change who you are, your nobody,you lose your true identity and perseption.
P.S. Don't try Penelope's Mom' suggestion that's the worst thing to do!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-08 15:49:46 · answer #8 · answered by guinia1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont bother u will be happier if ur not try forgetting bout being popular or not popular i works n doing that might even make u popular cuz it shows that u think ur just as good as everyone else get it trust me it works
2006-09-08 16:01:25 · answer #9 · answered by ChaCha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try and make more relationships and friends. Or get a boyfriend whoes popular or hang around other people.
2006-09-08 15:46:55 · answer #10 · answered by Yay Area 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋