2006-09-08 15:30:26 · 18 answers · asked by Pistol 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Cause neither are getting their primary needs met. If men were getting the sex that they need, they would spend more time connecting with their women. And if women were getting more cuddling and whatnot, they would be more inclinded to have more sex. Ah, we are so screwed up.
2006-09-08 15:51:36 · answer #1 · answered by VNCGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe most men are like that and maybe most women are the way you described. The older i get the more i know that the intimacy is more important than the sex itself. I'm 43 yrs old and would be perfectly happy with the cuddling and hugs but my girlfriend is more towards the sex. Where the heck was she when i was in my 20's?
2006-09-08 22:55:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably for the same reason women want sex when a man is really into watching a baseball/basketball game or boxing match on TV or some movie or program.
2006-09-08 22:59:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why is it that most women want to be held when men want sex?
2006-09-08 23:09:25 · answer #4 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put me on the men's team.....I also want sex! And honestly.....I haven't had a problem being held enough either.
Either look at the men you sleep with, or maybe your own skills!
2006-09-09 04:00:02 · answer #5 · answered by wendy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men need love but will accept sex. Women want everything else, and will do sex to get it.
2006-09-08 23:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by Ibredd 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about you but I want both from my husband I want to be held and I want sex I love being with my husband whenever he says he wants to be with me I'm ready to go make love he holds me and makes love to me that's fine with me and when a man loves you he wants sex because he loves you he wants to be intimate with you it's nothing to be worried about
2006-09-09 13:27:33 · answer #7 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got some good answers, but I think its basically because men and women are hard wired differently.
2006-09-11 05:12:55 · answer #8 · answered by I had 22 characters to work with 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't know. Apparently I'm the man in our relationship, I want sex and he doesnt. Go figure. He always wants to "cuddle". Honestly, I'm beginning to think he's the woman here.
2006-09-08 23:27:41 · answer #9 · answered by bookworm7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a man and I'll never understand that. It's what I feel inside my heart for someone that makes me want to be with that person. Maybe she's only a friend but if she's someone I admire and love then that's enough.
2006-09-08 23:01:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋