I was with my ex fiancee for 5.5 years. I started dating my current boyfriend of 8.5 months two days after me and my ex fiancee broke up. I still talk to and see my ex fiancee and my current boyfriend says it doesn't bother him because he knows he has nothing to worry about. Is he really secure, crazy or lying?
2006-09-08 15:25:57 · 13 answers · asked by Lucrecia2001 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
secure, even if he is a little nervous and not saying so. He knows you broke up with the ex, and that there must have been a reason. BF probably has exes of his own, and knows he wouldn't return to one of them either. He has perspective. Maybe he thinks your ex is a jerk, and gives you the credit of knowing a jerk when you see one.
2006-09-08 15:33:13 · answer #1 · answered by burpolicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the answer really depends on how your relationship is. Do you share a very trusting relationship or are them some begging questions that you want to ask, or suspect him of doing anything...and vice-versa. That is a pretty good indicator I think.
He may have been in a situation in the past like you, too, that was very similar where he talked with an ex...or wanted to and saw no problem with it. In this way, he can really relate that you want to still talk with your ex as friends.
Let me say this though, if you're going out, there's a pretty big opportunity for mistrust to build between the both of you, and not only that, but also a huge chance to make a mistake.
In my opinion though, unless you had children with your ex, I don't see a good reason to talk to him, since you are broken up.
2006-09-08 15:36:30 · answer #2 · answered by JTough 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nasty but, from the guys I know, it depends on how attractive you and or, he is, and if he's a wimp.
If you are very attractive he'll help you hide a body,
jump out of a plane, cut off his hair if you ask him etc.
If he is ugly or a wimp he will see your dating him as great gift, and will do nothing to mess it up.
As a guy I can tell you that him being absolutely unconcerned has a 98% chance of being bad, a 1%
of him being a really great guy, and a 1% chance of him being psychic or something. In the later case he really would "know" that there is nothing to worry about. :)
2006-09-08 15:40:49 · answer #3 · answered by Paklo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little of all of them. Secure because he keeps his cool. Crazy because he started dating you so soon after a long term relationship. And lying because it bothers the crap out of him that he isnt getting all your attention. Good luck
2006-09-08 15:33:55 · answer #4 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably very secure and non-jealous person.
Be happy that you have a man that isn't going ballistic when you talk with your ex!
He obviously knows you love him so you're doing a good job of showing it apparently.
2006-09-08 15:28:22 · answer #5 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any and all of the above.
Without more details of how that breakup with your ex-fiancee went it is hard to say.
For instance, it could be he new he was the rebound guy and always figured it was going to end so he isn't worried about that.
2006-09-08 15:29:55 · answer #6 · answered by special-chemical-x 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-14 11:57:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could probably well be that he's very secure of himself but If I were u I wouldn't abuse his tolerance. He's showing u that he KNOWS he's with u and doesn't want to make a big issue out of it but how long is he going to put up with that?
2006-09-08 15:41:05 · answer #8 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is just really secure and maybe he feels he has no reason not to trust you. I think it is wonderful he has so much trust in you. It shows how much strength there is in your current relationship, way to go!
2006-09-08 15:32:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's secure, but if he were insecure, crazy or lying what does that make YOU and WHY are you still seeing and talking to another man? WTH is up with that?
2006-09-08 15:34:45 · answer #10 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋