2006-09-08 15:25:00 · 9 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sorry, as long as they have kids together they have ties. Their marriage is over, its time to let it go. The kids needs are what is important now, that is ALL the ties they have.
2006-09-08 15:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by magda_shay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you must realize that when you get involved with a man and his children, you will have to learn to deal with the mother of his kids. It is a very tough situation. You have to look carefully at just how much you want to be with him. As the children get older the situation may get worse. Remember there will always be a connection between the man and his Ex-wife for the sake of the children.
2006-09-08 22:32:30 · answer #2 · answered by SweetALZENA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always in the best interests of the children if all adults can get along. If she is being difficult, than no you shouldnt have to deal with her.But if you can be a mediator, perhaps you will become a great stepMom Knowing that the childrens needs are the most important thing.
2006-09-08 22:33:20 · answer #3 · answered by galbee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea I hate to say that because I have to put up with my ex daughter -in -law,and I can't stand her .she was not a good mother when my son was with her and now she wants to act like she never done any thing wrong.My daughter-in law now has to put up with sticking her nose were it doesn't belong.She signed the divorce papers with out even reading them,I tryed to read them to her but she said that she knew that my son and me and his dad would help take care of them .And now she wants to see the kids after all this time 8 years.the lord has to help me when she is here cause other wise I would probably tell her off.
2006-09-08 22:37:01 · answer #4 · answered by Candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to put up with her, but try and tolerate her for the kids sake. Even if your husband hates her, you should ask him to do the same. I am sure that you love those kids as if they were yours. So dont be mean and hurtful to their mother even if your soon to be husband has to put up with her. If you want to be apart of his life for a long time, i suggest that you accpet him as he is and what he was with. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-09-08 22:36:48 · answer #5 · answered by jigglet92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. She mothered his kids. There's really no way of getting around it. Just remember he is with you and not her for a reason, and anytime she decides to annoy you or act rude, just remember that he's with you because you're better than that.
2006-09-08 22:27:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think a man should abandon his kids? If my answer is no then your answer is yes.
Please love him anyway, he needs it.
2006-09-08 22:31:34 · answer #7 · answered by teef_au 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-09-08 22:28:48 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Head 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never HAVE to put up with anything or anybody....
2006-09-08 22:26:54 · answer #9 · answered by DeAd DiScO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋