Ok..Well I'm 16 and recently my parents and lil sisters were killed..and I really have no other family..So I have moved in with my boyfriends parents..Me and Him really love each other and it's kinda cool staying here..We sleep in different rooms and everything unless we fall asleep in the living room..lol..But my Question Is do you think this is wrong? and also If it does't bother his family why do other people still run their mouth?
2006-09-08 15:22:47 · 10 answers · asked by whatalife 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I do have a job..I work for his mom at their shop..Soo I do help out in everyway I can!
2006-09-08 15:35:00 · update #1
I forot to say ABSOLUTLY NOTHING illegal is going on..(I ain't that stupid..lol) and for the other family thing..I never got to meet any of my grandparents and mt mom was a only child and my Dad's brothers live in Europe..Of I really don't have no other family...But I do thank God everyday for what I do have..My parents and baby sisters may be gone..But their is A reason I wasn't home that day..I do have a purpose in life..Thanks everybody..lol
2006-09-08 15:40:06 · update #2
I am not sure what question you are asking is wrong? I personally think it is kind of your boyfriends parents to take you in, that is an act of kindness. As for falling asleep on the couch with your boyfriend there is nothing wrong with that you are both sleeping. It sounds like everyone is being responsible. As for other people commenting on your living arrangement it seems to me it is gossip, and they do not know the facts. From what you are saying nothing is being done illegally or morally. You do not have to answer to other people only to GOD, and GOD already knows he sees ALL.
I am sorry to hear of your loss, but count your blessings you have a home you are blessed....
2006-09-08 15:32:54 · answer #1 · answered by Jewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey!
I'm sorry to hear what happened with your family! Well, to be honest I don't think it was a good idea to live with your boyfriends' parents...Even if you don't do anything, it still looks bad from anywhere you look at it, people are always going to talk no matter what, if you feel comfortable there and everyone treats you right then stay, but if it bothers you that other people talk then move out...you said it's "kinda cool staying there".....if you're ok there and have no where else to go, then stay there....let people talk, it's not like you are doing anything wrong....right? Good Luck
2006-09-08 15:27:56 · answer #2 · answered by hey_amt95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I am so very sorry for your loss. That's really tough at your age. As to your question, I won't say that it's wrong but I will say that it's not a good idea. There are a lot of things to consider....your reputation, are they supporting you financially and if so, why?, what happens if you break up with your boyfriend? Isn't there anyone else you could live with?
2006-09-08 15:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by ravred300 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People will always run their mouths because their ignorant, I suffered a great loss as well =(, my condolences. Anyway, I don't see anything wrong with you staying there, as long as you are contributing some way to the family. Good luck in life!
2006-09-08 15:26:22 · answer #4 · answered by (l)SR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because you are 16 years old and it might be considered illegal to live in the same house your boyfriend lives.
2006-09-08 15:26:45 · answer #5 · answered by Dolf-Wolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They helped when the people running their mouths didn't. What else are you s'posed to do now? Get your own place at 16?
2006-09-08 15:26:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as nothing is going on dont worry about what other people think,thank God that there was a family who took you in
2006-09-08 15:29:29 · answer #7 · answered by san_ann68 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
other ppl probly don't know the specifics of the situation (like that u sleep in different rooms) and ppl are just naturally supicious and luv to talk about anything; so just ignore them!!
ps. my condolences about your family
2006-09-08 15:25:59 · answer #8 · answered by Uma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's fine as long your okay and his parents are okay with you living there. But don't you have any relatives you could've stayed with?
2006-09-08 15:33:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first sorry about your family i think it is fine u need them and they need u they said u could stay then it is fine. an it aint wrong.
GOOD LUCCK!!!! hope all goes well for u
2006-09-08 15:28:08 · answer #10 · answered by NAUGHTY GURL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋