i've been with my boyfriend now for 5months now and i love him with everthing but sometimes i worry if he don't feel the same way because he broke up with me before and it was over something stupid so now im un sure.
2006-09-08 15:18:40 · 12 answers · asked by light_beautiy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you dont.
2006-09-08 15:20:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow some of the people on here REALLY give stupid advice. Some not even advice, they are just BEING stupid!
Anyways, 5 months isn't that long. Also no you don't "know you love him" if all you do is think of him as another said. Sometimes that is well "obsessive" behavior and that isn't good to be obsessed with anyone. Very unhealthy. Even when he is the only one "guy" wise you think of him doesn't mean you love him even. As another said, love does take time. Guys do tend to be more reserved with there feelings, girls tend to(not all)wear there heart more on there sleeves when they find themselves falling for a guy. Just take it as it comes. If you are constantly just worrying about when he is going to say I love you it will drive you insane. From my experience in the 1st time saying it sometimes if it is TO easy to say it's not real. Let him show you that he does or doesn't love you. Remember love doesn't grow on the same levels with people EVER. Were all different.
Good Luck and try not to stress about it so much, if you are with a guy for 2 years and STILL nothing then maybe worry a bit, until then your fine.
2006-09-09 01:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by Pam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is patient. Does he reflect patience with you. Love is kind. A person, being human, will not always respond the way we want them to or the way they should. We'll have bad days, but 1 Corin. 13 gives a really good perspective of what love is. Love gives, it doesn't take. When you love someone, your desires, wants, needs come 2nd to the one you love. Does he express this? The decision-making part of our cerebral (brain) isn't fully developed until we reach 25 yrs. old. You have your whole life ahead of you. Don't get so serious until you are ready. Give yourself and your boyfriend a chance to grow up and mature. There's no rush and waiting will be worth it. Consider your relationship with God and ask Him what He wants for your life. He has your best interest at heart. He wants the best for you. Is your boyfriend the best for you? God knows. Let Him lead you. Listen to Him. Listen to your heart.
2006-09-08 22:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by JanMarie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that love is a very strange emotion when it comes to guys. Girls fall in love way to easy. Guys, it takes them longer, and sometimes when they say they are in love, they are not sure. I would have a nice sit down with him and let him know that you are having some doubts. Communication is the key to a good relationship. He will either asure you that everything is fine or it might be what he was needing to have a conversation with you. Good luck and hang in there.
2006-09-08 22:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by pregomom76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow 5 months already and your still not sure if hes in love? You should get knocked up, then he wont have a choice...
2006-09-08 22:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by xhang_firex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he treats u like a princess and and values your time together he is a keeper. don't rush the "i love u" out of him. be patient
2006-09-08 22:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by jellogiggle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to marry you. Be prepared for no though.
2006-09-08 22:21:39 · answer #7 · answered by teef_au 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want to get married and have baby.
2006-09-08 22:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by kristy_deano 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he licks you when you're on the plug he loves you
2006-09-08 22:20:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hell tell u that he lovs u or hes to shy
2006-09-08 22:20:53 · answer #10 · answered by cookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he love you if he say he love you...
2006-09-08 22:20:19 · answer #11 · answered by Knife Party 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋