I think I am pregnant , this will be my third child and my husband and I had already decided we dont want mor

Question

What do I do? We have already discussed this issue. I have a 6 year old daughter and 2 year old son. Any advice would be welcomed. Thanks

Answer 1

2 choices...abortion or adoption.....
If you didnt want more, why are u have unprotected sex or one of you not sterilized???

Answer 2

You can get an abortion if you are in your first trimester - or you could look into adopting the child to a couple who truly want one. Since you have already had two children, you should remember how you felt about each child while you were pregnant, dreaming about how they will look and turn out. It may be you will decide to keep the baby after you think about it for a while. This decision is best decided between you and your husband. You are both responsible for the new life coming. You should both decide what to do with it.

Answer 3

I was in your shoes too. We only wanted two children and we had a son and a daughter and was happy until....OOOOPS! It happened...I was pregnant and when I told my husband he was so happy and over whelmed with joy. I cryed for 4 months. Now my daughter is almost 4 years old and I really don't know what I would have done with out her. I guess that if you are pregnant tell your husband and start getting ready for baby #3. If you are not...start protecting yourself. I think that everything will work out for the best and I wish you the best of luck.

Answer 4

WOW , denying your own flesh and blood? that baby didn't ask to be here. I got pregnant on i IUD and despite what my husband felt , i have number three , the third biggest miracle in my life and my unwanting husband is now an ex. I'd be lost without my babies. and to do what your doing or considering is selfish and unruly, if you didn't want a baby you should have taken every action not to get pregnant , shame on you , thats just the perspective of a loving mom , there is always a way to fit one more in the picture

Answer 5

I have a friend who last year cried and CRIED and cried that she was pregnant with #4, but two months later she miscarried and they realized that even though it was inconvenient at the first thought, they actually DID want that baby. They mourned for the baby for several months, even mourning that they didn't want it at first. Finally, they decided that they'd better start trying to have another baby, and when she got pregnant, they were practically beaming. Maybe you need to give yourself a little time to adjust to the idea. You might find that it grows on you even if you REALLY don't want it right now.

Answer 6

you have 2 kids, you know the challenges and the rewards. It seems like you need to get the facts first. take a pregnancy test, find out whats up, then check how you feel. I find that in these situations, needless energy is wasted upon worry. Worry wont change anything. dont bother trying to make a decision about what to do while you are filled with uncertainty. let the facts lead you to your choice.

Answer 7

Give the child to me. I am 35 years old and even though I am in a monogamous relationship I have never been pregnant. I am not rich but I have everything I need--except a baby. I would give anything in the world to have a baby---anything. You are blessed and you don't even know it.

Answer 8

find out first. if you are discuss every option. it wasn't easy for me either. I am a mother of three. I love my children. I truly understand what you are saying. Me and my husband also decided not have anymore. If you weren't meant to have teh baby then you won't be pregnant.

Answer 9

If you don't want to raise another child, think of the miraculous gift you could give to a couple who cannot have a child.

Answer 10

Discuss it, but the ultimate decision is YOURS to make. Good luck!

Answer 11

First make sure you are pregnant. If you are, then you need to make your decision all over again. It's as simple as that.