I have a friend and she had sex but she didt tell her mom and now she is trying 2 push me into having sex but im at the age where my hormouns act a little funny should i stay strong or should i do it
2006-09-08 15:08:36 · 29 answers · asked by sweetheart2hard2handle 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Stay strong and don't do it. Her choice is hers! You deserve better.
2006-09-08 15:10:07 · answer #1 · answered by synkronyzer 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you are not in a position where pregnancy is a good option, then DO NOT under any circumstances have sex.
If your hormones are acting up, then the probability of pregnancy is quite high. Plus, there are a whole slew of std's that you have to be aware of these days. Some may kill you. Save this act until you are an adult. Sex brings a whole world of problems into an already stressful life, so wait until you're an adult.
I waited until I was 19, and I probably should have waited longer. Never let anyone else influence what you do with your body!
STAY STRONG!
2006-09-08 22:15:23 · answer #2 · answered by Chellebelle78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not do it. You should never feel pushed into sex. Your friend simply wants to feel better about herself. Once you've joined in you cannot judge her. If your not ready you will only become confused, and once you start it is hard to stop. Later you will regret having lost your virginity to Young. Also rumors around school spread fast. Even if you think you may keep it a secret. Then when your talking to boys you'll never know if they like you for you, or for the chance they may get into your pants. Not to mention the STD you may get. If you do decide to have sex, you will need to start seeing a gynecologist. It will not be fun but it is necessary.
2006-09-08 22:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by Christina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let anyone pressure you! You'll know when you are ready and no matter what your friend says or what a boyfriend says, if you're not ready there is no reason to rush. You have your whole adult life ahead of you to have sex, no reason to get involved in sex if you aren't ready. Sex has a lot of issues, pregnancy, stds and emotional pain. Be strong!
2006-09-08 22:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by S. O. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from experience don't let anyone talk you into anything. You will regret it if you do it for any other reason than you wanting to with a very special person. Stay strong. If she was a good friend she wouldn't try to pressure you.
2006-09-09 00:40:24 · answer #5 · answered by KatC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex is another one of those things in life, where, if there is any question about it at all, it is best to put it off and don't mess with it until later. Sex for the first time is a moment that will be remembered. The question is, will it be remembered with fondness, or embarassment?
2006-09-08 22:11:46 · answer #6 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are questioning yourself of whether to have sex or not, you are clearly not ready. Just because your friend had sex does not mean you are ready. It may not be the same for you as it was for your friend. You know babies come from sex, so you should really give this some thought before you do it.
2006-09-08 22:24:37 · answer #7 · answered by Ms.shauncy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be your own person! don't let anyone force u into doing anything that you aren't ready to do!! Be a leader and not a follower!! There are several consequences that come along with sex that you may not be ready for!!! Don't follow the crowd!! Be smart and save yourself for that right person!
2006-09-08 23:57:33 · answer #8 · answered by angellove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay strong until u meet the right person that deserves ur virginity, not someone that is going to use u for sex, once u lose it u dont get it back
2006-09-11 09:42:08 · answer #9 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAY STRONG and wait until you are ready and with the right person. Or you are going to regret it.
2006-09-08 22:13:13 · answer #10 · answered by mommy@18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay strong as long as you can. Having sex beofe marriage can really mess you up.
2006-09-08 22:10:59 · answer #11 · answered by mommysrock 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋