What would a good friend do?

Question

Me and my friend are 13. She is dating this guy. She said she might have $ex with him this december for his birthday. She might not go through with it, but what if she does? She said she'll use a condom and be careful. I asked her about what if she got pregnant. Uhg! What would a good friend do?

Answer 1

Step 1: Talk to her. Tell her how you feel. If she seems nervous and unsure, try anything to stop her!!
Step 2: If talking to HER isnt enough, talk to her parents without the presence of her. Discuss about it.
If you are a true friend, you should protect her from hurting herself. Be there with all the way. Listen to her. How does SHE feel about it? Is she pressured to do this? Ask for every single detail. You are a true friend for asking this question and good luck!

Answer 2

Talk her out of it. She is giving herself to a guy at age 13. For what???? His Birthday. You can NEVER get that back. And lets talk about pregnancy. Condoms are not 100% Not having sex IS. If she gets pregnant then what? Happy Birthday? For who? Definately not the child. Talk her out of it. It is what a good friend would do.

Answer 3

Tell her to watch Maury Povich a few times..yes, alot of his shows are about paternity tests, but it all comes down to the guy walked out accusing the girl of sleeping around. Also, there's the teenage mom wanna-bees who regret it later on. Condom? You don't know if you'll use it till the time comes based on how "eager" you are (to put it politely)! How 'bout them STDs? ooooh, gotta share some of them... she needs to grow up and enjoy her teenage years free and clean while she has the chance. Good Luck!

Answer 4

Tell her if she does this then chances are great that he won't be around her for his next birthday. If he were a decent guy he would want her to wait, her brain and body aren't even *cooked* yet. Tell her how you feel then don't beat yourself up anymore over it, she might be enjoying your extra attention over this matter. I'm proud of most of the guys answers on this one. Good luck hun.

Answer 5

Tell her that you don't expect her to have sex with him if she's not ready. Be strong for her, she needs your support. She might feel like she has to since she told you she might.

Does he know she is considering this? Tell her that he shouldn't expect sex from her, and be there for her if he dumps her over such a stupid thing. You can also set a good example, tell her you'll stand up to peer pressure with her. It's easier when you have a good friend to support you.

Answer 6

Your freind is an idiot she would lose her virginity than buy her boyfreind some present thats worth a couple of dollars true idiot and she's only 13! go tell her parents

Answer 7

Let her know the cons of having sex so young. Ultimately it is her decision though and a good friend would be there for her no matter what happens.

Answer 8

13 is way too young to start having sex.Try your best to talk her out of it.Get some info on consequenses of having sex at such a young age and show them to her.If she still decides to go through with it then just be there for her.

Answer 9

Be honest with yourself.
And then be honest with her.
Real freinds arent afraid to say what they feel.
If she rebuffs you for telling her the truth, she wasnt a true friend to begin with.

Answer 10

she thinks having sex with him will make him stay with her even longer, but he's just probably forcing her to do it. he is probably saying "if you love me, you'll have sex with me." talk her out of doing it and making a terrible mistake of doing it so young. once he gets a hit at her and finds out she got pregnant, he'll leave hr.