My fiance plays alot of pool online and he chats on yahoo as well. One time I saw his message to a girl and he was telling her to come and cook for him... and all this B.S. I was sooo mad.. then he sd he wont talk to her anymore. Obviously he doesnt keep his word so what does he do> he add her again on his friends list but list her as one of his friends name so I wont know thats her screen name. At that point I had enough I was going to break up with him becuase he lied to me. He stopped talking her for maybe 4 months or so that i know of.Then today I saw a message from him and another female and he was showing pictures of himself to her and she sd that he;s cute..BLAH BLAH BLAH and all of this crap... I feel that he cant keep his D$CK in his pants. what should i do? im thinking that i should break up because he cant be trustful.
2006-09-08 14:56:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dump him have self respect....
2006-09-08 14:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by Jewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it might be, I would suggest to break up with him. I had a friend who was that way online, and he also check out porn and stuff. She let him know how uncomfortable it made her but he continued and just lied about. Oops, they had a baby, it can happen even with birth control. Now she is stuck with this guy she cant trust. I would totally suggest ending this reltionship if he is that way. Something unexpected like a baby can happen and then you could be stuck with a child you love more than anything in a relationship you hate. If he is willing to ly to you, tomcat around on the net, he obviously doesnt respect you very much and must not know what love really is. You can find better. I am sure of it. Good luck!
2006-09-08 15:03:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel like you are special to this guy?
Do you think he'd cheat on you if given the opportunity?
Would he lie to you?
I'll give you the same advice I give every girl I hear stuff like this from: If your man does not make you feel like the only important girl in his life, if you don't trust him, and if you think he may be cheating on you, then you need to find a guy who appreciates you a lot more.
You deserve to be treated like the beautiful, smart and unique young woman that you are. Tell this dork to hire that slut to cook for him, you'll get a better man to take you out.
There is a guy out there who'll treat you right. Be patient, you may have to kiss a few frogs to find your prince. Don't settle for anything less than exactly what you want.
2006-09-08 15:10:20 · answer #3 · answered by michaelsmaniacal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
K, this is easy. To make it very clear, someone who cared about you would not put you in the position to feel jealous or insecure. Love should help re-enforce your insecurities and make you feel safe. If he is flirting online, he is flirting in person! It now falls in YOUR shoes. Whatever happens here is your responsibility. You know the facts, so if he does cheat, you should of seen it comin. You know, one time shame on you, two times shame on me. Remember that love helps and not hurts. It doesn't hide the truth or tell lies. People make mistakes, but those mistakes should not be repeated. Good luck!
2006-09-08 15:04:33 · answer #4 · answered by kmusic212 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
appears like a at a loss for words guy who hasn't were given his ideas at the same time that is why he blew it contained in the first position proper? he would not know If he needs you or the only existence because if he had his act at the same time and actually truly replaced right into a guy and idea that about you he can make each attempt to get you back truly he falls on the floor and has a cry over his own themes that you sparked in his ideas.
2016-11-25 21:26:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are better people in this world. You know what to do. I found my soul-mate 22 years after I met her for the first time. Right in front of me all those years and I kept looking for gorgeous looking women (she is not ugly by the way).
2006-09-08 15:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by Dolf-Wolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should leave his a** because obviously he is looking for attention from other women and is talking to them in ways he shouldnt be doing. He already lost your trust when he lied to you about not talking to her so might as well dump him because if you give him chance after chance he is going to continue talking with these females and your just gonna keep getting hurt. good luck!
2006-09-08 15:01:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should think of why you love him and remember you already were going to get married. Then think about him and this problem, which one overcomes the other. Then try talking to him about it again. Hopefully he will stop after that but look at what they talk about first before you jump to conclusions.
2006-09-08 15:02:20 · answer #8 · answered by monkeyshopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the insecure lying piece of crap. Trust is the most important part of any relationship!
2006-09-08 14:59:34 · answer #9 · answered by Wounded duckmate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if he stopped talking to her, there would be others. Step back and take a look at him again. I think you are lucky to find this out now, instead of looking for a good divorce lawyer.
sorry, not all of us guys are like that.
2006-09-08 14:59:24 · answer #10 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should totally break up with him many guys are like this break it to him know! dont let this go on any further or u might just get heart broke seeing him with another women SOMEWHERE!
2006-09-08 14:59:38 · answer #11 · answered by ilovefrogs333 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋