Ok here's my problem.....I just want to know why some guys are mean and such pigs....It's like they never heard that supermodels have nothing inside......I'm a sweet and nice girl, and a guy dumps me only because he found out that I have dark toes, and a very dark bikini line, it's not like it's the end of the world, or is it???
I won't deny that I felt very humiliated, because I thought he loved me and that he would get past all that, but I was so wrong, and that was so sad! Why couldn't he just accept me the way I am? The outside beauty with time goes away, but the inner beauty stays inside, why couldn't he see that?? I've never been so humiliated in my whole life! Can someone tell me why all guys are like that?? People tell me that "not all guys are the same"....but come on, is it possible to think differently?? Honestly!!
2006-09-08 14:39:48 · 16 answers · asked by US_MNKY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Not everyone's the same! Some are immature jerks. some are the person who has the quality of a great friend or etc.
2006-09-08 14:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by Love or hate? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch that must have hurt. You know guys are hairy too. Guys act all macho, because they can be insecure. Not all guys are like this. I love my guys confident and tough. They wouldn't give a damn if I had any of your problems. You picked an nancy boy who reads teen magazines in his spare time. If you have a dark bikini line, you can use Nair, wax, or shave it. That would be considered fixable unlike toes. But, another thing, even a monster can make itself look like a teddy bear. All cute and cuddly, but when it comes out to bite you, I'd simply rip it's head off. I wouldn't take sh!t from a boy. Nor should you, next time you see him, slap him and tell him what an ungrateful little asshole he is.
I'd love to help!
2006-09-08 14:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by warhead 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one is "perfect", what is "perfect" anyway? I bet he can't explain that one. We all are different and what is beauty to one isn't to another. Beauty is within ones soul and a lot of men make a big deal about so called outward "beauty" and it means almost nothing. Those bimbos with the fake this and fake that are nothing more than walking billboards and most do not make great companions anyway. Be happy with yourself and know you are as beautiful as your inner self is. If you have a lovely inner self men will love you better and longer than those walking billboards anyway. Hold your head up high and just know you are as beautiful as any woman that walks this earth.
2006-09-08 14:55:13 · answer #3 · answered by sharkscue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry for your being mucked about by an immature and selfish individual
rest assured that there are nice and decent men out there who maybe just lack a little confidence with forming relationships but with a little encouragement make wonderful friends and husbands
but that guy - he did humiliate you in a way - but longer term you are better off without him.
outer beauty is fleeting but inner beauty is the thing that lasts well into old age
2006-09-08 14:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by Aslan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To some guys, women are like trophies. If your good looking are the guy thinks his friends will think more of him when they see you, he'll want you. If he later finds out that(in his eyes) something is a little different about you, he'll think his friends will find out and rag on him about it. Chances are he not only dumped you because of that, but told his friends it was your fault. I say move on..if thats all he needed to dump you, it was his loss and someone else is going to get to be with you. Bottom line....he's a jerk and you don't need him.
2006-09-08 14:45:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats very harsh. i guess boys are imature and you should be glad that you found that out right then and there. I say you dont worry about it and move on. boys will be boys no one can change sept the man upstairs. If you are a sweet girl you will find that descent guy thats out there, cuz there is some out there im sure its hard to believe put ur head up and dont look to the past.
2006-09-08 14:44:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look not all guys are the same...but i think a vast majority of them are quite vain and superficial, They become that way i think because of their own weakness and vulnerability and least face it...if i guy has dumped you for such a silly reason then really they are quite shallow.
your better of without him and now you have the time to look for someone more worthy of a nice girl like yourself.....
2006-09-08 14:44:17 · answer #7 · answered by askaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey!!
I think you should move on with your life, that guy wasn't worth it anyway! If a guy really loves a girl he should accept her just the way she is, if he doesn't then that means he's not worth it, it's a good thing you found out how he feels about it, at least you didn't waste any more time with him! Good Luck
2006-09-08 14:46:35 · answer #8 · answered by hey_amt95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people all have opinions about what a perfect person is. i could care less about tan lines and toes. weight and so called beauty factors are unimportant to me. for me, my idealmate has a great sense of humor and is reasonably intelligent. if a guy dumped you because of a defect in your toe, he is pretty shallow anyway.
he is not worth another thought.
2006-09-08 15:06:18 · answer #9 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dream girl is this girl in skool she one of my friends we talk n stuff but i'm afraid if i ask her out she would refuse , plus i'm short and she's tall it's kinda hard to go out on dates like these but someday probably in the next year prom i would ask her out , i would give it a shot at least but i still wanna be friends with her if we don't have a chance , it's a girl any guy likes she wears sunglass (mucho beautiful) , smart , nice , sweet , funny , playful , likes basically anything i like , likes guitars (very very sexy)lol but yea if i have a chance with her i would ask her . i have dated only 1 girl throughout my life because i'm not the guy who likes to go out with anyone else i want to go out with that someone special and only them . man everytime i c her face i get so happy , but i really try talking to her but she just talks to me sometimes (most of the time just a wave for hi or bye) , and with this kinda conversation we've there's no chance for me with her but i would still love and care for her because she a beautiuful friend of mine (bless you god to make this amazing human being ) , and the way she smiles my god that get's me high , it gives me pleasure when she's happy , but i know that she's not feeling the same for me and probably wouldn't but , hey life is not fair and everything is not perfect so there wouldn't be a chance with her cause truly i know that she doesn't like me but if there's a little spark inside her that tells her that i'm the guy who would give up anything for her xcept for GUITAR , then i would be blessed by the love of God . And evertime i sleep majority of the time i dream about her my God how beautiful she is ... if miracle happen and she reads message and if she knew it was me (somehow) , i want to say I LOVE YOU !!!!!!!!!!!IN THE WHOLE WORLD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!AND I ALSO LOVE GUITAR AND SEPULTURA
2006-09-08 14:41:19 · answer #10 · answered by nattdog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋