Well I had this friend who I was friends with ever since kindergarten and in eighth grade [3 years ago] me and her got into a fight because I moved and started to feel some hate towards her so I went on the computer and did all this mean stuff like enter her name for contests I knew were fake and send hatemail from her to different places. But we started talking on myspace a year ago and became friends again. I came back to visit my grand parents and we met up at the park and I told her that I was REALLY sorry and she said that it was okay. We are meeting again tommorow! Do you think that I am a BAD PERSON? Do you think that she really FORGIVES ME? I told her that I am a changed person!
2006-09-08 14:33:03 · 16 answers · asked by cookiemvh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yah she does. Freinds do that kind of stuff. its ok. ive done it b4
and we got over it
2006-09-08 14:36:45 · answer #1 · answered by neardisturbed 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think .... if you're really sorry, then you're not a bad person, you're just human, who makes mistakes. Can only find out if she really forgave you when you talk to her again, but to regain her trust I think you need to be really really really careful about what you say and how you act and stuff until she really trusts you again. Maybe she never will, completely, but that's the consquences of your actions, and what's past is past. Let her know often that you're sorry and you wouldn't do the same thing again. It might be some work to keep your friendship going the second time, but it'll be worth it in the end. good luck
2006-09-08 15:24:44 · answer #2 · answered by Maybur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were bad to her, but I wouldn't call you a bad person. You just had a mean streak but you are over it now. It is quite possible that she has completely forgiven you. I just hope that you never, no matter how much you hate someone, consider doing any of those things to anyone ever again. Because then you would really be a bad person.
Good luck!
2006-09-08 14:38:21 · answer #3 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from adventure ive had both a sturdy young children a million-12 then after I grew to develop right into a youngster my moms and dads divorced and we struggled alot i might want to might want to assert it completely relies upon on how the guy see issues in his existence dealing with both i strayed off into undesirable issues drugs and what no longer yet now im a more suitable human being i discovered even as suffering between proper and incorrect soooo i determined i wasnt going to be undesirable i replaced my habit and issues..there is a few actuality in what your declaring yet oftentimes something might want to ensue undesirable people come from sturdy and undesirable childhoods sturdy people come from sturdy and undesirable childhoods also it basically relies upon which way the youngster makes a decision to bypass. basically because i finished up there (undesirable tennage existence) i knew i wasnt going to stay there.
2016-11-25 21:24:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a good friend to over look your past short comings as a friend, I don't think you were a bad person, maybe just an immature one, just learn from lessons past, and be the true friend she has been to you all along!
2006-09-08 14:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by helper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not a bad person, sometimes when we get really mad at someone it's easy to lash out. If she has known you for that long, she will know what you're like, and hopefully when you see her tomorrow you can laugh about the whole thing.
2006-09-08 14:38:10 · answer #6 · answered by ang_172 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie this is "Granny", no your not a bad person. You did something foolish, regretted it, and apoligized. That's maturity and being what God wants you to be. It does not matter if your friend forgives you or not, forgive yourself and move on. She's lucky to have you!
2006-09-08 14:43:43 · answer #7 · answered by tamara.knsley@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You apologized and she forgives you. End of story! What you done was wrong but you clearly have made amends so no you are not a bad person
2006-09-08 14:36:36 · answer #8 · answered by toughguy2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know... i probably wouldnt have forgiven you... but if she really is a great friend like i think she is from eight years, she'll love ya anyways... and she'll get over it when she sees how great of a person you can be tomorrow... or a couple of days ago, w/e
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2006-09-08 14:54:42 · answer #9 · answered by Helpful Hints 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a bad person you are just a child. I'm happy she forgave you now is the time to show you are a real friend by your actions now.
2006-09-08 14:35:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not a really bad person as you have said your sorry, BUT she may have forgiven you because she is meeting you tomorrow, SO you will have to be the friend you SHOULD of been before,
2006-09-08 14:38:16 · answer #11 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋