y must ppl judge by first look instead of meeting that person?

Question

ppl are bein SO rude these dayz about how they look!!!!!! thats wat i call racism!!! dont know y but it reminds me of it!!! its like judging a man w/ a bunch of tatoos, but who knows? he mite be the best friend u've ever had. man, descrimnaters. -.-"

Answer 1

lol it's kind of an automatic feeling I guess. I mean you can't look at a person and not think something, right? Especially how guys in high school do it, and girls do the same to guys. But if you feel that way, then that's good. You can really find someone who's good :D

Answer 2

It's sad that people judge first my looks but we do. The truth is a lot can be seen at first look of a person.

When I use the term - you - below, I do not mean you personally, but the collective form of you, or I could substitute "I"

For example in front of a local deli, you meet a very very nice man in a dirty flannel shirt, wrinkled jean and he hasn't shaved or brushed his teeth. He may be the kindest man in history BUT you are also likely to assume that 1) he has poor hygiene, 2) he doesn't care about his appearance and 3) you might assume he has little money.

Now those things may not be true, he might be the richest man on earth and ran out from his expensive hotel to buy a toothbrush - but that is highly unlikely.

And then you meet a man dressed in a Ralph Lauren Polo Shirt, pressed khaki slacks and nice shined loafers. When he speaks to you, his breath is minty fresh. 1) it would be easy to assume that he has money or has access to clean clothing 2) that his hygiene is good and 3) that he cares about how he appears to the world.

He might be a Hells Angel taking the week off his chopper but it is unlikely and quite truthfully, the older I get the more unlikely those things are in the real world. It's just human nature, it's wrong but we are slaves to our nature.

Answer 3

Because this is what society does. It is a natural instinct adopted by hanging around the wrong crowd. It takes a strong person to realize that they are not going to live a life of judging people because they have one eye or one leg.. be proud of yourself for not judging people, you are one of the few.

Answer 4

i guess bcuz thay want pl 2 look how thay think thay should. like they should be a school girl or something. like thay cant have tattoos or piercings except 4 their ears and if thay have more piercings than that they're hoodlums. but it doesn't matter what ppl like u thay just haters bcuz u r doing tha coolest thing possible... being urself. so just keep ur head high and ignore them haters. then they'll see u 4 who u really r and not how u look. like i really only c ppl i dont see hoodlums unless i know tha person if i like them then thay cool i try 2 b friends with em but if thgay mean thay aint right and i forget them i cant make them like me. but just give ppl time they'll learn

Answer 5

Because 1st impressions count!

Just as you should SPELL correctly if you want people to take you seriously...Appearance and Correctness are EVERYTHING if you want to get ANYWHERE in this world.

Learn the lesson now whilst you're still so innocent you won't get hurt by the facts.

Answer 6

human beings are a visual species. everyone who we stumble on to be unattractive isn't inevitably "no longer effective", yet when we assume of you're literally not beautiful we subconsciously discover you to be a waste of our time and factors, and could manage you as such. You do it too, no matter if you opt to confess it.

Answer 7

It's always human nature to form an opinion on what they see,that's how we judge before approaching!!!

Answer 8

yeah well your totally right. i wish people would get to know some one before they make a judgment.

Answer 9

it's prejudice pure and simple prejudice ...