What can I do to get him out the house?

Question

last night my husband called the cops on me .he had moved into the back bed room on his own and I got the rest of his things and put them out side of the room he is now sleeping in. the next thing i know the cops are comming up my steps. nothing they could I was just moving his stuff from one room into another. not putting them out side like I wanted. he moved him self to the other room so whats his problem. yes I have aked him to get out but he wont go. what can I do to get him out of the house for good

Answer 1

You are going to have to talk to an attorney and ask what your legal rights are. But one thing you are going to have to do is file for a legal separation. If your renting your home then talk to the landlord and ask if when the lease is up if you can sign it without your spouse. Then you do a legal eviction on your spouse.
That is probably going to be about the only legal way of getting him out if he refuses to go.
Because as long as you are married and he lives in the house then he has as much right to stay their as you do. And even if y'all were divorced as long as he is living there then there isn't much you can do other then a legal eviction.

Now if y'all get into a physical altercation and you call the cops and he goes to jail, you should be able to file a restraining order against him and then the police should make him leave and he would have to stay gone.
But I would call the police dept and ask them how it works first.

Now you could bring another man into the house and go down and add him to the lease. That would piss off hubby. Or he could just bring another woman into the house and mess with you.....lol
So you see, doing things the wrong way, the spiteful way, the illegal way..........is not the way to go.

Take to an attorney and find out your legal options.

Answer 2

Without knowing all the details, I can only imagine the situation. Regardless, it seems that you could benefit from a women's shelter who does advocacy for women. They will also provide legal assistance, shelter, keep you safe, offer expertise from other women who have been through what you have, etc.

It is important that you feel safe and comfortable in your own home. If you don't feel safe with this guy, I urge you to follow your instincts and gut feelings. Don't remain in a situation that is not safe.

This is not a problem you can deal with alone, or with just one person's advice. Please do get some help. You can look in the yellow pages of the phone book for Women's Shelter. Or, ask a pastor of any church, even if you don't know them. Otherwise, walk to an outpatient mental health center that does not charge a high fee and ask for help.

You did not say if you are unsafe, but if you feel in the least bit uneasy with him, please leave the house. You will probably get it back, but what is most important is to stay safe for the moment.

When in doubt, call for help!

Answer 3

Ask the cops and the town judge about what to do and you have to consider if there are children in the home too. Include any and all information to the authorities in full details.

Answer 4

If it is the both of your house then someone has to give maybe you are the one who needs to move out. And if it is your house then call the cops on him...
If there are children in your home please try and think about them and what they are seeing and hearing. And if not Lets be thankful..
Good Luck

Answer 5

You must first ask yourself if this is really what you want. Love and hate ride such a fine line. If this marriage is really over, then you both should be able to amicably divorce. Be fair to each other. This can get very ugly very quicly.

Have you ever thought about getting out yourself?

Answer 6

If there are not any children. I suggest you pack your bags and just leave. Also leave the refrigerator empty, and uncork his beer. Remove any toilet paper, and have your power turned off. A man with out his tv is a dead person. Most important wear a chastity belt, and don't take a bath or douche yourself.

Answer 7

Well, it depends solely on if you have kids, your job, income, and who owns the house.
If he's paying the bills and the house is in his name, you should leave rather than him. I say that because he would be able to fight it and you couldn't kick him out since it's in his name. In that case, stay with family or good friends.
If the house is in your name, tell him that you will call the cops if he doesn't get out because he is trespassing on your property and is UNWANTED.

Answer 8

Put a lock on that back bedroom! Keep the key yourself. Don't give him the key. If you lock him in/out enough he'll get sick of it. May sure you change your phone number first and don't give him that either. Or if you have a cell phone cut off the line phone. Keep putting things in front of his door.

Answer 9

If he does not hurt you physically, and the house is in his name as well as your name then I do not think there is anything legally you can do to get him out. Looks like you are going to be the one who has to leave if you don't want to be with him anymore. Good luck!

Answer 10

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