i've never been to one of those places, so i was wondering if those strippers are going to be on to him, or on to both of us, or me.
2006-09-08 13:55:36 · 11 answers · asked by nans77 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
They will usually go for the guy unless you say otherwise. They might ask you if you want them to do anything to you. Just go with the flow. They shouldn't just hop on you or anything.
2006-09-08 13:58:15 · answer #1 · answered by starlet_80 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have been to strip clubs several times with boyfriends and guy friends. I always had a good time. One time my (ex)boyfriend gave me the money to give to her on stage. I handed it to her, did not put it in her g-string. When I went to the bar to get some drinks, she came up and asked if I was interested, or just giving the money for him. When I told her, she was fine about it. She was very nice and polite. Another time I went with a large group of male and females friends. We ended up talking with one of the girls before and after the dance (she was an AMAZING dancer) and she was very funny and intelligent and not what people stereotype strippers to be like. And one last quick story - I was at a club with a guy friend, my former roommate. He was a very fun guy and had a quirky sense of humor. He privately told one of the dancers (unfortunately she looked like a crack whore - part of his joke) that I was into her, and he paid her to dance for me. I couldn't get rid of her! But I still laughed about it with him. I say go, have a good time, and catch a few moves to try when you get home.
2006-09-08 21:17:03 · answer #2 · answered by A_Renaissance_Woman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with first guy when I went with my ex they were move on me gave me lap dance and then I started kissing my guy and kinda dancing to him and they told me to sit down only the strippers could dance so I was just kissing him so I didn't have that much fun as I thought man I couldn't carress my ex cause they thought I was doing a free show instead of them charging $20 for the lap dance but I did like that I learn some new moves to use on my new honey
2006-09-08 21:04:50 · answer #3 · answered by nena24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how classy the strip club is. Most places, the girls respect your limits. They're dancing for tips, not fights. But don't be surprised if they start showing you some attention.
2006-09-08 20:59:17 · answer #4 · answered by RepoMan18 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Unless you buy him a lap dance.
Actually, you will probably enjoy the club. Lots of couples go so you don't have to worry about being embarrassed.
And, you can try to pick up a few moves as well.
Have fun!
2006-09-08 21:01:43 · answer #5 · answered by Angela 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are interested in whoever has the money. They will flirt and dance for both of you, unless one is being cheap.
2006-09-08 21:01:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the strippers are suppose to be on the stage,,but they do have women thst serve the drinks come around and ask you if you want a massage on your neck and shoulders(of course for a price).....when i went the first time,,,she came over to me and touched me on my neck,,i was like wtf are you doing....i was very uncomfortable,,,,so naturally i told her to back off. its possible they are on both of you...whoever is walking the floor....hahahaha have fun
2006-09-08 21:00:16 · answer #7 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only if you pay them. They are strippers. It is a job for them, not sex.
2006-09-08 21:12:50 · answer #8 · answered by burpolicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They'll be on anything that waves a dollar at them.
2006-09-08 20:58:35 · answer #9 · answered by IAINTELLEN 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now ask yourself, what good can become of this----you have now answered your own question
2006-09-08 21:03:13 · answer #10 · answered by Billy S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋