Helpp with life, im feeling depressed?

Question

Im 18 years old, male, no friends, no job, no license, i go to school mon wed fri from 10am to 230am and the rest of the days i sit home on the computer or am at my cousins, or watching tv. i just started college and i have a lot of free time. all this free time is killing me. because i have no energy all day im bored and tired as sht. What do i do with my loser ***?

Answer 1

You seem to understand that isolating yourself is bad. You have to get off the computer and away from the TV. Get your $%@ moving and get some exercise. Join some groups at the college. Find some REAL people with similar interests.
You have your whole life ahead of you. This will pass if you can force yourself into action. If you simply cannot, look into psychological services your college most likely offers. Get some help if you need it. Don't be afraid to ask, because you ARE worth it.
Good luck.

Answer 2

It one of those human things man. There is no final resolve for these stuggles, these stages in life, but a conscious sharing or balance for each stage can help a person to maintain a reasonably sane existence. As long as you know the difference between feeling an emotion and loyalty, no problem. We know the rule for persistence over the temporary; it is reputation, ego ideal, morality. You may change your life now.


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erick_Erickson

Stage One Oral-Sensory: from birth to one, trust vs. mistrust, feeding;

Stage Two Muscular-Anal: 1-3 years, autonomy vs.doubt, toilet training;

Stage Three Locomotor: 3-6 years, initiative vs.inadequacy, independence;

Stage Four Latency: 6-12 years, industry vs.inferiority, school;

Stage Five Adolescence: 12-18 years, identity vs.confusion, peer relationships;

Stage Six Young Adulthood: 18-40 years, intimacy vs.isolation, love relationships;

Stage Seven Middle Adulthood: 40-65 years, generativity vs.stagnation, parenting;

Stage Eight Maturity: 65 years until death, integrity vs.despair, acceptance of one's life.

Answer 3

DO your school homework, DO the Assigned Readings and Projects, STUDY, GET a JOB, EARN some income -- take on some RESPONSIBILITIES of Adulthood -- because Driving is a Privilege and NOT a Right -- and to DRIVE you need INCOME.

This is HOW you get over Depression and Boredom and being Tired -- because when you do NOTHING, you have NO ENERGY to DO any thing.

Answer 4

honestly, your not the only one. and screw the coffee shop...ur just sitting on ur *** again getting fat. when ur in class, sit down and ask the person next to u a question...i like to ask if there is a book or i ask what i missed last class. mostly i ask the ladies, but if u want guy friends thats chill too. just start a convo and then see what they like to do. get their #(or email/facebook), which is a good start then go from there. build ur relationship from there. ull be fine...alot of kids feel like losers when they start something new.

Answer 5

what about your homework or school activites?
Is there some reason you can't work - or get your license?

If life really starts to get you so down that you can't function - please get help! LIfe is worth living and college is a big adjustment.

Do your best at school and see your counselor to see how you can participate at your school in things you are intersted in. Good luck

Answer 6

YOU'RE STILL YOUNG, YOU CAN DO A LOT!

WHAT INTERESTS YOU? FIND A HOBBY

DO YOUR HOMEWORK

DO HOUSEHOLD CHORES

FIND A JOB THAT YOU LIKE

LEARN TO INITIATE

FOCUS ON WHAT YOU WANT

BE WILLING TO TAKE RISKS

THINK POSITIVE!

BE MOTIVATED!

HOW? READ ON:

Speak loudly with passion and excitement either aloud or to
yourself inside your head. The more energy you put into it
the easier it will be to light the fire inside you that
sparks you into action.

Answer 7

I assume you are saying, that you are not interested in anything, school, family, friends. That you either are prevented from doing certain things. But you do not seem to have limited ability. I would assume you are depressed. You should see a counselor.

Answer 8

Get a part time job doing something you are interested in, and try to imagine where you want to be in life and take steps to get there

Answer 9

You need a part time job.

Answer 10

alot of college kids go to a coffee shop.