I used to work with this gorgeous girl, anyhoo, about a month before she left the company we got really close, she was telling me how much she wanted me, and i ended up telling her how i felt about her, and how long i had felt it, yes i think i used the L word, dont laugh, ha.
she seemed to love it at first and she was all over me, then we went out quite a bit, and she started going all weird with me, because i asked her where she wanted to go eat?
Ever since then she has been really nasty to me, she wont even talk to me!
problem is, i was so convinced that it was going to work with her, that i ended my relationship with my girlfreind just to be with her!
I cant stop thinking about her, what can i do?
I even dreamed about her the other night!
(These answers should be a laugh, at my expense i expect)
2006-09-08 13:31:40 · 10 answers · asked by kinglee28 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What goes around comes around, sorry to say maybe you are getting what you deserved by breaking up with your girlfriend to be with her now you are alone, you know some girls just feel the need to hook-up with a unavailable guy, trust me I know...now I just hope I am around to see my ex-husband get hurt by the girl he left me for good luck...and remember to treat people the way you want to be treated
2006-09-08 13:44:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
are u not telling everything here?man u have to be honest if u re asking for advice. first of all i don't believe she turned nasty just after u asked her where does she want to eat. did u take her to a cheap restaurant ? maybe u acted cheap? im sorry, please don't take it personal, but i just put myself on the place of this girl and was thinking why once of a sudden i would turn nasty. only because of this - disappointment. she somehow got very disappointed in u that's why she turned nasty. so if u had been precise and honest here i would have given u more precise advice how can u fix it now (well, dumping her is not an option anymore - she already dumped u so your self esteem would be hurt) but as u prefer to keep secrets and show yourself in better light - i can only wish u good luck
2006-09-09 03:12:12 · answer #2 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"It's just one of those things you put down to experience," as the ancient song put it. It sounds better in the original Latin, but ...
Your best bet - walk away from her, right now. Stop talking about her, texting her, calling her, emailing her. Just drop her like a hot stone.
If she's interested in you, she will come back to you, wondering what is going on. If, however, she has been jerking you around, you'd be best served to put a lot of distance between the little minx, and look to your old girlfriend with the aim of apologising to her for your impetuosity.
Either way, the next few weeks are going to be hard on you. Sorry.
2006-09-08 20:38:03 · answer #3 · answered by fiat_knox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happened coz of where she wanted to eat?? hahahahaha!!! Ok I know these first dates can be awkward with the whole eating thing - "do I have something stuck in my teeth" "will he think Im a pig" "I dont like anything on the menu" kinda scenarios - but shes just taken it to a WHOLE new level!!!! Not much you can do really except forget about her - and in future think before you leap - you could still have your old girlfriend now.
2006-09-11 06:19:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a common plot in movies....harharhar!
forget her!!for now it's the human nature that's taking over in ur system....desperately wanting "things" you can never have or is vaguely possible to acquire...wait for a few more weeks and ur infatuation will soon be over....
you'll get over her and meet ur perfect match at the right moment...
2006-09-08 21:03:34 · answer #5 · answered by michael b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Us women are very complex im afraid but email me, i wont throw you to the lions xxxxxxxx
2006-09-09 03:21:01 · answer #6 · answered by Liane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems strange that she turned funny all of a sudden. was a bit odd. i guess you`ll have to put it down to experience. bad luck lol, you win some.....you lose some i guess
2006-09-08 21:37:55 · answer #7 · answered by sillyfilly001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good its you own fault mayb ur feelin a lil ow ur girlfriend did wen u dumped her
2006-09-09 05:45:27 · answer #8 · answered by 2006hunni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has found some one else
2006-09-10 12:38:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christ man - forget her - -she's just not interested !!
2006-09-08 20:41:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋