well, in the mornings at school, we all have to wait around outside until all the buses show up so we can go in. So me and all my freinds were standing around talking and I said something about something I sang that I thought was cool or something I played on my clarinet and all of a sudden my friend Cassi, who I would NEVER expect to say anything like that was like "Nobody cares about band and chorus." and I was sort of like, whoah. Then I said, "that wasn't about band or chorus, it was about just something musical that I did at my house." and then they all started saying about how I'm obsessed with band and stuff like that.
What do I do?
What she said hurt, and I have no idea what to do.
It makes me wonder who my real friends are,
I thought they were all like, my best friends.
help?
2006-09-08 13:29:48 · 6 answers · asked by Vallerie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try to let it go.
You have an interest, music, that they don't share. (They sound a little jealous that you have this thing that enriches your life.)
But it isn't really a big deal. These sorts of things happen all the time, and then life goes on.
You might mention to Cassi that she hurt your feelings, that you like music, it's important to you, so you shared it with your friends, but it's very likely she will only become defensive.
If she and the others are your friends, and usually show it, then try to forget it. People still in school often get crazy bugs up their hindquarters for a moment, when it really means nothing.
It's also possible that you talk about this interest too much with your friends, and this is their (cruel) way of letting you know that, but most likely it's just one of them things.
2006-09-08 16:24:45 · answer #1 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have friends like that and if I were you, I would just let this slide off of my back. It doesn't matter what people think of you.. all that matters is that you are happy.. you aren't obssessed with music.. and from what I get, I bet you are really talent and a real friend will not step in and ruin it, they will encourage you.
So, let this slide off your back, but next time, think about who your friends are. Don't let them influence you.
Good luck!
P.S. I am someone who hates it when people talk about me.. just ignore them!
2006-09-08 20:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
same here.
i cant trust my friends.
they speak spanish and when we eat together they would say **** about me in spanish...snice im not dumb..i understood what they have said..
they really broke my heart...i have no friends thats loyal...im so sad and lonley.
i know how you feel...
2006-09-08 20:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by Grack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes help
2006-09-08 20:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by penguin, or maniacle evil genius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOMETIME YOU DON'T KNOW WHO YOUR REAL FRIENDS ARE UNTIL THEY OPEN THEIR MOUTH. FIND YOU SOME NEW FRIENDS.
2006-09-08 20:34:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-08 20:31:59 · answer #6 · answered by Yana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋