WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 4 YEARS NOW AND HAVE A CHILD TOGETHER. BUT HE WILL NOT MARRY ME, WE HAVE HAD DATES LIKE 5 OR 6 BUT THE DATES COME AND GO. WE REALLY DON'T SEE EYE TO EYE ANYMORE ANY WAY. DO YOU THINK I SHOULD SEE IF WE CAN WORK THINGS OUT OR LET GO AND LET GOD. I THINK GOD IS NOT IN THIS BECAUSE IF HE WAS WE WOULD HAVE BEEN MARRIED WITH NO IF'S AND'S OR BUT'S. HELP ME OUT PLEASE.
2006-09-08 13:27:37 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wow those were some "dates" if you have a child together. After 5 or six dates?
Move on. He's not going to marry you.
2006-09-08 13:30:44 · answer #1 · answered by WendyD1999 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long does it take to get a marriage license and go down to the courthouse to get married? You have a child now or I would just say pack it in. What's the hold up? If either one of u were thinking about God you would be married by now.
2006-09-08 20:39:38 · answer #2 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well this is a hard one because we dont really know what is the problem, ok you guys dont see eye to eye but about what??? really you need to do what makes you happy! and what is good for you child! good luck and i hope the best for you guys! God Bless! :o)
2006-09-08 20:31:48 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ LEILANI ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its both you and him. He has been irresponsible to you, but you have actually 'accepted' his behaviour by contiuning to be with him. Hence , you have sent out a message to him that no matter how he treat you, you'll stay. Walk off.. and let him know that you will not accept such treatments from *** holes. And your child need not to know he have a bastard for a father.
2006-09-08 20:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by happie_julie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that if hes not willing to marry you then hes probably looking for someone else. Or, he could just be scared. Sit down and talk to him about it.
2006-09-08 20:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥♥ Pink ♥♥♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say it's pretty obvious he is not interested in marriage. If you want to be married, I'm afraid you will have to find someone else.
2006-09-08 20:31:03 · answer #6 · answered by hvnmorefun 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask him which it is, a judge to marry you, or a judge to set child support. That will get his attention...
2006-09-08 20:31:09 · answer #7 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. He's just not interested and you are wasting time and energy with someone who cannot give you what you want.
2006-09-08 20:29:45 · answer #8 · answered by Angela 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your not supposed to have sex before marriage miss
2006-09-08 20:33:23 · answer #9 · answered by hello 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋