my best friend is now my worst enemy and i dont know what to do! im afraid that we will never be friends again! please help me!! PLEASE!!!!!
2006-09-08 13:24:35 · 13 answers · asked by beth d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well... my friend is mad at me because i wouldnt talk to her... she doesnt believe that i am sorry and that my friends told me she was a bad influence... but she is not to me! please SOMEBODY help me!
2006-09-08 13:39:54 · update #1
Well, first off, if you offended her, then you have to apologise for what ever you did. This may not get her "back", but, it will be a start, and you will start the "healing process", that may get you two back eventually.
If it was her fault, then you have to forgive her!
How much do you miss her friendship? Is it worth being alienated from her for the rest of your life, or maybe months or years?
The LORD said to forgive your enemies, and right now, you may view her "as" your enemy, and your hurting because she "is" your best friend, whether you admit it to her or not.
So, either apologise, or forgive, the ball is in your court.
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-09-08 13:29:57 · answer #1 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. Been there. If you REALLY want to be friends again, swallow your pride and talk it out. If you need to apologize for something, do it. If you don't think you need to apologize for something, but your friend thinks you do, you probably do need to. Sometimes things are beyond "I'm sorry", but in most cases, it's a good place to start.
Either way, remember that it is good to surround yourself with good friends. Plural.
2006-09-08 20:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by sendmedaisies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depends on what happened. It doesn't matter who started it. All you can do is apologize if it was your fault. If it wasn't well then still apologize. Try explaining how much she means to you and how bad you miss her. I lost one of my best friends, but at least I tryed to get her back. I didn't succeed, but at least she knew. That is all you can do.
2006-09-08 20:29:39 · answer #3 · answered by meesh_nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you consider her your worst enemy? i had an experience like yours, my trust to my bstfriend was lost, at first i just ignore her existence, and in due time i know i can forget what she did, just have patience and if shes not doing anything that affects you, ignore her. or you can talk to her., and analyze what happened to your friendship
2006-09-08 20:28:41 · answer #4 · answered by amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What went wrong? Who did what? Need more info.!! Try to correct the problem if your friendship is worth it. Would "I'm sorry help?
2006-09-08 20:31:52 · answer #5 · answered by melinda_rn2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, let's go get some ice-cream and maybe catch a movie...I'll pick you up around 6.00pm, dress sexy so we can get attention...any attention! Who needs old girlfriends when you can make new ones? forget that heifer..who needs her when a tub of ice-cream can cure your mood!!??
2006-09-08 20:30:59 · answer #6 · answered by SUGA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wish i new more about wats goin on that way i would be a little more usefull. try sending her notes but write the carefully so that you don't start another fight
2006-09-08 20:28:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happened. It is hard to advise you without the details, sweetie...
2006-09-08 20:25:56 · answer #8 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what happened? how do expect to get advice with a vague question
2006-09-08 20:29:49 · answer #9 · answered by cuteGIRL01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** it ive lost my best friend you can learn make more that are much better
2006-09-08 20:27:10 · answer #10 · answered by froggy_dimebag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋