good night so i hate them for this but they said my feibnds mom does drugs!! is this a good thing to hate them?
2006-09-08 13:15:22 · 27 answers · asked by Brandon911 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Look it is perfectly normal to get mad at your parents but think about this please. If they died tonight how would you feel about saying that you hate them? Your parents have good reasons about not letting you stay at your friends house. I have two daughters and do you think that I would let them spend the night at a friend's house if I didn't trust that person's family? Maybe you could ask your parent's if your friend can spend the night with you. And you need to try to be more understanding of your parents. They love you.
2006-09-08 13:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by shorty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey whaz up with that? People have told u now! Sooo... my son was killed over at what he called a friends house where people were high on drugs. It really sucks, he waz so cool.(1 of the best friends you could ask for) How in the **** do u think ur parents would go on if that happened 2 them. ( I know the phrase quite well " It will never happen 2 me" ) So u need 2 kno is it true about ur friends mom or do your parents hove some ""contempt prior to investigation.""
2006-09-08 15:36:44 · answer #2 · answered by aworthyspirit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it isn't good. You should listen to your parents. If your friends mom is doing drugs, there are a lot of things that could happen while you were there. What if she got busted and you were there. Your parents could have trouble getting you back. What if she brought some thug over to do drugs or a drug deal and he was a rapist or something. You need to understand that when people are on drugs...even if they are "good" people, they are not themselves. They do things that they do not mean to do. Your parents are just trying to protect you. Why don't you see if your friend can come and stay at your house? It'll get better, try to see things in their eyes.
2006-09-08 13:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by #3ontheway! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents don't let me go to sleepovers and stuff because they don't know the parents. I don't think you should hate them, when you are older and have kids you'll look upon this as a way of protecting you. Kids are growing up so much faster these days and parents are quickly losing the reigns on their kids, so this is a way that they have controlled you. Parents say a lot of stupid things and that your 'friends mum does drugs 'is another of these things. Just love your parents because they love you so much and it's healthy to hate parents because that shows misunderstanding among families:) And believe me, it is healthy to have misunderstandings, Hope this helped
Have a fantastic weekend
Peace
2006-09-08 13:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by WALLABIES!!!-x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody will fight with their parents and act likethey hate them. But oother ten them not letting you go to a friend's house i'm sure your life isn't to bad i mean they feed you, pay for school, prolly buy you stuff, give you somewhero to stay. Realize they are doing the best they can, and know that there are people that get abused, are orphans, and so much more. So just try and be kind to them and don't let this little problem ruin your relationship!
2006-09-08 13:19:32 · answer #5 · answered by manda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's a lot worse things than feeling as thought you 'hate' your parents. For sure it's not them you hate - it's the rule they've used to protect you. There is a difference between a person and a person's behavior. You may love them but you don't especially respect this rule. Just be open and talk to them about their decision and the facts and information they used. "Hatered" is never a good feeling/emotion because the only one who suffers is the one who carries it without knowing why. Be kind to yourself.
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2006-09-08 13:46:06 · answer #6 · answered by what_privacy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you realize how immature and bratty you sound?
You are acting like a pissant teen from a cliche family flick.
Grow up, your world isn't ending because you aren't at your friends house. And maybe if you act mature about it and don't throw a hissy fit, your parents will recognize that and let you spend the night another time.
Until then, SHUT UP.
2006-09-08 14:03:34 · answer #7 · answered by Queen D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not good to hate your mom and dad...they are only watching our for you. If your friends mom does drugs...she may end up hurting you not intentionally...but by accident, and being a parent myself, I would not want my son or daughter near a situation like that. Maybe you can talk to your friend about him getting help for his mom.
Your parents are not the bad guys here...you will find this out...when you have kids yourself one day. You would give the WORLD to make sure they are safe.
2006-09-08 13:28:43 · answer #8 · answered by lega36cy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is amazing that they have faith you, yet i won't have the ability to make your techniques up their way of showing it. i won't have the ability to think of having a deferential female spend the night in my living house with my son, so i won't have the ability to even answer for them. If I have been your be certain, i will assure you the two myself and my husband may well be chatting together with his mom and dad bearing directly to the undeniable fact that we don't even desire such recommendations to settle for. yet as for YOU- you no longer purely did the main suitable undertaking, you probably did it in mild of being allowed to do the incorrect undertaking. sturdy selection, i do no longer additionally be attentive to you and that i'm pleased with you! i'm hoping my very own daughters proceed to make selections like yours whilst they are 17.
2016-10-14 11:51:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...if this is your reaction to a simple "it's not a good night" from your parents, maybe you're not mature enough for an overnight.
If it's your friend's mom that's their concern, why don't you ask to have your friend stay overnight at YOUR house?
2006-09-08 13:19:25 · answer #10 · answered by lizanneh 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋