cheer me up please?

Question

im not really happy right now cuase of something that happend at school earlier today..

can someone please help me cheer up

or maby give me some good advice or something to make me stop being so self concious...or however u spell it

i think i just need something to boost up my self esteem for a second..

its not that i have low self esteem..its just that i need to stop thinking so much about what other people think

i wanna be more like..cheerfulishh in school..like..i mean in class..cuase outside of class im not like this..
i just like..sit there..kinda..lazed out.

so i just need like.. good adice to kinda..clear up my mind alittle.

thankx

no im not in high school
and im natualy like..a fun outgoing person but today im like..really...sad...it kinda brought me down..[the thing in school did]

noone like..laughed at me..if u think thats what happend

if u really want me to tel u what happend..ill tell u guys..

its not like.....the worst thing ever..but it made me really sad.

yea..im normal in school..like..not really popular..but not a nerd either.

i guess u can say im like..quiet i guess in class.like..
i can be the loud person that i am..but....i wouldnt want people to think im werid.

oh and..if ur wondering what happend..ill just say it.

this girl had to switch seats behind me with another girl cuase she didnt want to sit behind me.isnt that mean. well i think she didnt cause when i turned around she looked at me...like..kinda stopped in a way i cant explain.. and...yea.

i dunno why

[that might not sound like the worst thing ever but it felt really badd!!]

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I FEEL LIKE A BIG NERDY LOOSER SAYING ALL OF THIS CRAP TO RANDOM PEOPLE.

Answer 1

u should live ur life at the fullest cause u never know how long ur gonna live..like u dont know if ur gonna be alive tomorow..

and when ur older..and u have kids some day maby
ull probley be telling ur kids that..

and when ur older then thatt..ur gonna be telling ur grandchildren i was blah blah blah in school when i was ur age.


and ur probley never going to see those ******* bastards after highschool...maby u will but after that..then ur gonna be like..'*****..i was crying over that bitchh.. i wish i could go back in time and not think about what i loser i was thinking about what other people thought of me'

and u probley have better qualities that boys like ..

just think about it...

seriously

Answer 2

Just remember that I know right now it seems like a long ways away, but when you are grown and graduated, all of those people you went to school won't matter anymore. All that really matters in school in the long run is your grades. Your friends go on with their own lives, and most people you will never see again. But, until then, don't worry about what people think of you. It doesn't matter. You need to tell youself that you are funny, you are fun to be around, and if they don't like you for who you are...they are no good anyway! What you are feeling is very common for girls your age! You aren't the only one! Everyone else at school probably really feels the same way, some are just good at hiding it.

Ohhh....and your SHOULD NOT call people who give you their phone numbers on the internet!!

Answer 3

Go and get some choccie girl!!! That stuff makes you feel sooooo good! And go get some comedies or chick-flicks! Im across the world from you but Im sure if Id ever meet you I could cheer up your day. Life is too short to be sad, embrace it, go do something rebellious, enjoy life!!!! im a goofy person and if you can imagine someone dribbling on a power plug and getting electrocuted when they are half asleep, that should cheer you up, the whole irony of it is funny! (i didnt die, just ended up with really frizzy hair!:)
Have a fantastic weekend
Peace

Answer 4

Ok you should definitely stop thinking about those other people. Be yourself and always stay yourself. Dont change for anyone but yourself. You should just try to make new friends or go to a party. Have fun and just get through the school year. Thats my advice to you.

Answer 5

If you want us to happen you could tell us what happened at school. But I know that you probably don't want to talk about it. Just forget about it, you're in school. Whatever it is just remember that whoever laughs last, laughs best.

P.S.: Do stuff at school that makes you happy, i.e. pack yourself a special sweet treat or pictures of friends or buy yourself ONE new outfit (don't splurge!) or buy some school supplies (okay, so the last one isn't that appropriate but I spent hundreds on school supplies this year, so what?, bite me:P)

Answer 6

yes do not worry what people think like is too short for that. I use to be the same way, and now i have grown out of it see im overweight and in school that was unacceptable but im 29 now and things are different. do not worry about things girl do something u like just get your mind off of things.

Answer 7

being a teen can be soooo tough. just know that you are beautiful, inside and out. its so hard not to worry about what others think of you, but if you think that you are beautiful it will rub off on others, your confidence will show, and other people will love it. i know this sounds wierd but tell yourself out loud (in privacy) that you are happy, you are beautiful, and you are energetic, say it enthusiastically and if you say it enough you will start believing it, you're probably sitting there thinking im a nut case, but i learned that from my Mary Kay director, I tried it, and it really worked. good luck and stay strong, you will get through it.

Answer 8

honey let me put it this way. Youre in high school right?
In 10 yrs those people wont care about you still and you wont care about them. Believe me I was in high school 16yrs ago and how many do I still talk to? UH ONE and we just got back in touch last year.
High school can be cruel years for some but just remember you are who you are and stay true to that. And one day when you're more succesful and established you'll want to look up those old people to laugh at them but you will just end up pitying them.

(((( HUGS )))))) this video will make you smile

Answer 9

ask yourself this ? DO YOU LIKE WHO YOU ARE? if not only you can change yourself but hun i was the way you are in high school. Why should you change just b/c of one girl you should care about what she thinks you wil always have some one who dont like you. Idid but if they dont like you think like i did and tell yourself then she dont deserve to be a friend. If you need more help email me at [e-mail] it will be ok i promise just forget it and go on about yoru way with your friends

Answer 10

i am guessing by your tone that you are in high school my first bit of advice is to learn to love yourself tell yourself that you love you everyday because no one will ever like you or love you unless you love yourself. school is hard and to be honest it always will be no one ever has a perfect ride through high school dont mope through it make the best of it and believe you me when you get in college it is nothing like high school people are alot more open and if you are depressed you should talk to someone. remember your mom or dad may not seem like a first choice but they will never tell you anything wrong and they want whats best for you