2006-09-08 12:50:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
You cannot make someone fall in love with you nor can you make yourself fall in love with someone else.
It is a connection that exists, most people recognize it immediately some take longer. Some people who love each other never stay together at all. Lots of people who love each other hate each other. Some remain best friends all their lives.
Don't confuse love with lust. Lust is sexual attraction, that's all.
It has nothing to do with love.
Best thing to do is to love yourself and let the rest happen.
2006-09-08 13:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by Keenu 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Frankly there are no ground rules for a person to fall in love with someone. Love blooms out of the blue. As they say, "chemistry" should be there between two people then love happens.
2006-09-08 16:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by Chief of sinners 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone is "made" to fall in love with another then it is not really love. Think of a cherry blossom gently floating on the wind to land on someones shoulder.
In other lands, cf. Fiddler on the Roof movie, arranged marriages work into love through kindness and longevity.
2006-09-08 14:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anyone fall in love with you. There has to be several things of attraction that causes the person to have interest in you in the first place. Appearance, personality, similar interests, a period of getting to know each other is good for starters in a relationship.
2006-09-08 12:58:22 · answer #4 · answered by oldone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make people "fall in love". Love is a chemical process in the brain which can't be directed or predicted and which lasts, at the most, about 2 years. Friendship, understanding, sex, and caring can last a lifetime.
2006-09-08 13:03:49 · answer #5 · answered by looking4ziza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know. Love is a mystery. It has to be a combination of things, really, it is all sexual. People try to deny it, but they are either naive or lying to themselves or just ignorant of the subject.
Romantic love is about sex.
First, you have to be sexually attracted to the person. They have to 'turn you on'. They might even have to have a certain smell, certain proportions, certain characteristics that psychologically remind you of a parent or care-taker or someone you admired or had experience with when you where young.
1. attraction
2. chemistry
3. bonding time
thats what it takes.
2006-09-08 12:55:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Conversation that lasts well into the night. Good conversation, about things that really matter. Then intense, soul shattering sex that lasts well into the next day. The kind of sex that isn't about how many orgasms each has, the kind where your souls seem to connect and transcend the physical. You know, that old chestnut.
2006-09-08 18:43:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must fall in love with them too. It is a mutual response that must be full filled with marriage. If it is true love, you will feel it.
2006-09-08 13:14:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh. The Question Of The Ages.
I have no idea how to specifically answer this question. The most I can say is to just talk to them. Be yourself, be strong, be real. And if you have to, just tell the person straight up how you feel..
2006-09-08 12:54:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be honest, open, have a sense of humor. One needs to be intelligent, sincere, well-mannered, and enjoy many of the same things I do.
2006-09-08 13:33:46 · answer #10 · answered by Rhonda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋