my bf gets dirty mags and looks at girls on the internet.He thinks I don't know He won't even let me check our mailbox. Why does he hide it and how should I confront him?
2006-09-08 12:37:45 · 10 answers · asked by arina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Because he's a guy, and he's dating you, so he doesn't want you to know that he reads dirty magazines too. You should just be honest with him and tell him that you know that he reads those things. And if you're not okay with it, tell him. Because if you just bottled it up inside of you, it'll just make you mad and cranky with him, which in the long run will hurt the relationship. And if you're okay with him reading those magazines, tell him straight up that he doesn't need to hide, because you don't have a problem with it!
2006-09-08 12:41:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont complication about the undeniable truth that you're shy or how u look because there are a decision of adult men who're also shy and dont imagine they look all large both. perchance you ought to commence off going for a guy who has simular pastimes as you, someone who's likewise shy and would no longer be that enormous. in case you provide a guy like that a risk and get to attraction to close them, even in basic terms as pals, you would finally end up boosting each and each and every others self belief and then you will be able to open up your horizons to all the different adult men who're accessible. ultimately, you'll finally end up getting a boyfriend and it is going to ensue once you're solid and prepared, no longer becoz all of your individuals are dealing with that degree. Dont enable your individuals impact u coz all my pals made out that they had misplaced their virginity and that i presumed i became the purely a million who hadn't (this became at the same time as i became 16) It became purely after feeling that pressure and making an exceedingly undesirable determination that i ended up sorting out that some my pals were mendacity so Im in basic terms putting forward that dont complication about what your individuals are doing - in basic terms stay your existence and be real to your self!
2016-11-06 22:30:54 · answer #2 · answered by fleitman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok lots of guys do that. Maybe he just feels ashamed or thinks you will poke fun at him for it. If you want to confront him just crack a little joke about it when it is just the two of you and than casually tell him you don't mind.
2006-09-08 12:45:57 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like maybe he is uncomfortable or embarassed about it. I would just let him know that you know and express that it is completely normal for him to look at such things....unless of course he spends loads of money and all of his time doing that. I would just make sure you don't come off as angry or thinking he is perverted. Be nice until you know all of the details.
2006-09-08 12:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by ashflaskfhu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's you. Why would he wonder off and discover new things if you weren't satisfy his needs. Stop being a prude and act more like a girlfriend, lover, wife and best friend. Play your part so he doesn't have to wonder anymore !!!
2006-09-08 13:05:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't rag him about it all guys do it just go and buy some sexy close and use it for him get him interested in you not the mags. then show him your wild side he'll stop reading it eventually.
2006-09-08 12:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by leilehua_girl98 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't "confront" him........you need to leave, sweetie. If you continue to put up with this treatment, then stop whining.....you reap what you sow.
2006-09-08 13:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave the man alone... Tell him to get a P.O. box if he has something to hide.
2006-09-08 12:39:55 · answer #8 · answered by codex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because hes embarrased and doesnt want you to think you arent good enough for him or anything. its natural...
2006-09-08 12:39:36 · answer #9 · answered by lizzyb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sara is right....men are just men...he loves you though:) and thats what matters
2006-09-08 12:40:59 · answer #10 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋