today I found out that my unborn baby's Dad is a bank robber, I know I should just forget about him, but that's hard to do! HELP ME PLEASE!
2006-09-08 12:35:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Save your baby from heartache and a potentially dangerous person. He is risking his life , yours, and your babies by being a criminal. What if the police came into your home with guns looking for him after he did something and was hiding in your home?? What about his friends?? What if they are pissed off about what something he did??? If he were to get shot coming out of a bank?? If he involved your family in a car chase with the cops??? Trust me he is hiding a lot more dirt than you think, and this dirt will rub off on you if you are not careful. These people do not change,do not trust him.Does he know about the baby??? I would just leave and not let him know, I know that this may not be P.C. but those kind of people do not deserve children, let your child know about his father but you did it out of his safety.Do you really want your child to visit him in prison?? Do you want him to be a criminal himself??? Lead by example and save the both of you.
2006-09-08 12:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by CandyCain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a talk with him. Discuss how to raise the unborn baby in a good environment, Tell him that the kid needs a good father figure who can set a good example but being a robber as a daddy would be the last thing you want for your unborn baby to know. So by all means ask him to change his career or else you'll leave.
2006-09-08 19:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by shannon s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on! What do you think? Is that what you want for your life? A bank robber? Is this a joke?
2006-09-08 19:39:17 · answer #3 · answered by kholt_75 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
end it with him. do you honestly want your child to grow up in an environment with a bank robber? however don't break off ties completely because that's unfair to the child to never meet his/her dad.. hope that helps a bit?
2006-09-08 19:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by girl. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go away to your family and have the baby and forget about him.
2006-09-08 19:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what to tell you except...sort this out..if he can change for the babies sake, then maybe you guys have a chance...if you cant get past this then just move on:)
2006-09-08 19:39:23 · answer #6 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already know what to do what kind of life will that be if he ends in jail or dead if he quits there still the chance of him getting caught and there you go
2006-09-08 19:38:15 · answer #7 · answered by Judy D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do what is best for your child.....Sometimes you have to leave the person you love to make a better life.just pray
2006-09-08 19:37:56 · answer #8 · answered by annie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG!
2006-09-08 19:36:59 · answer #9 · answered by bridetobebrandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋