He got one to check up on me. I have since cancelled my myspace due to the constant harrasment of why do you have one, are you sleeping around, how do I know you knew them in high school ect...It got really bad. He would yell and scream at me even though I let him look at my account and my emails. It was obvious I was not doing anything wrong. Anyways, now he has a myspace with his pic, and friends, and bios...so, why is it okay for him, but not okay for me. What should I do???
2006-09-08 12:33:08 · 13 answers · asked by libbitybits 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We also have an 11 month old. That is what is making it so difficult. My mind says get out, my heart says "but sometimes he is great", and my wallet says "you can't right now....wait a bit."
2006-09-08 13:00:39 · update #1
YOU DONT NEED A GUY THAT DONT TRUST YOU
2006-09-08 12:38:15 · answer #1 · answered by Crystal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an insecure and controlling bastard... Please think twice (or thrice) before marrying him, it will only get worse - if not myspace, then something else will come up. ALL of my friends have myspace accounts, it's just something that everyone has nowadays. It's not about myspace, it's about control - and control is NEVER a good thing in a relationship. NO ONE should be looking at your e-mails, online accounts, or anything like that; he's out of line so badly I can't even tell ya. Rethink your marriage before it's too late.
2006-09-08 12:38:05 · answer #2 · answered by codex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He had no reason to be jealous but he was anyway and has upset you. If he keeps it up (which he will) you will leave him for another guy and he'll say "See!!! I knew I had a right to be concerned about you!" But the truth is, the only reason you left is because of his behavior. He created his own worst fear. It is a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Dump him now. There are MILLIONS of guys out there that wouldn't do that to you. Why would you settle for this guy? Do you have low self esteem? Only someone with low self esteem would tolerate that. Someone with healthy self esteem would laugh and say "take a hike buddy".
If you marry him you are an idiot (sorry to say that but it's true!).
And if you marry him, don't be coming on here in a few months asking us crap like "My husband does blah blah blah" because we'll be like "Did he do that crap when you were just dating?" You'll say "Yes" and we'll be like "WTF DID YOU MARRY HIM FOR!?"
2006-09-08 12:41:44 · answer #3 · answered by Edward 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants to be in complete control of you. People with this type of mindset, believe they can do whatever they want to even if it contradicts what they think others should do. Basically, they are the **** and no rules apply to them. I would say bye bye.
2006-09-08 12:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by ashflaskfhu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Caught ya didn't I. First Myspace, now Yahoo Answers! You just wait til you get home!!....
2006-09-08 12:38:39 · answer #5 · answered by El Duderino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Starbucks or somewhere casual, touch his arm, look deep into his eyes, and say, "Lately, your behavior has really hurt me emotionally. I am able to watch myself on Myspace, and do not need the harassment. Please stop."
2006-09-08 12:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wooooooo, this guy is a fruit cake. You go back and create your page. Who cares what he says. No one can tell you what to do, or should I say no boyfriend. Tell him to take a hike, you'd be better off.
2006-09-08 12:42:07 · answer #7 · answered by ladyj289 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump that mo-fo! hes a hypocrite.. just ask yourself.. with the way hes acting, do you really want to spend the rest of your life with him??? its immature and childish. hes got alot of growing up to do before he gets into a relationship.
2006-09-08 12:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by lizzyb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep mine and tell him to "Stick it where the sun won't shine". That's a bunch of crap for him to be so controlling.
2006-09-08 12:35:51 · answer #9 · answered by Beth 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's on "high alert" because he fears that you are doing the same thing he is accussing you of. BEWARE
2006-09-08 12:35:19 · answer #10 · answered by feisty_wun 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋