My best friend, who I've know since 5th grade is starting to make me feel wierd. I'm starting to like her as more than a friend. I've liked her for a while but not this much. Does anyone know how I can get her to like me? Nothing obnoxious please just subtle gestures. I'm a nice guy as I hear from a couple girls and I really like this girl so please help me!
2006-09-08 12:14:29 · 12 answers · asked by Running Teen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sometimes friendships are just intended to be friendships. Sometimes friendships are the foundations to relationships. This is hard because being a female, and having male friends, it has always caught Me off guard when They go from being My friend to wanting more. That is before I was married.
Guys should take notice that there are signs that a girl will give off if interested in You, like giggling a lot, or touching Your hair, or arm. When it is time to go They hang around. They look into Your eyes a lot, and call You up, or show up where You are at. So do as Someone else suggested, get a Friend that You trust, and while You are out together, have Him talk about You to Her, VERY casual, and not revealing Your feelings about Her, that is Your business to do.
If She doesn't feel the same way then You won't ruin Your friendship. Then after more time, perhaps She will feel differently. Girls go after bad boys, but they want to settle down with a Good Man. I wasn't instantly taken in by My Husband, but He never gave up. And I am very blessed that He didn't. Sometimes We do not realize that the best Person for us, has been right there, near us the whole time. The best relationships are the ones that take time. Take it slow and proper, as to not mess it up, and find Yourself sitting at home, wishing You had gone about it differently.
Hope it turns out great for You.........
God Bless, and Best Wishes
2006-09-08 12:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
There isnt really anything you can do other than be yourself and just enjoy her company as friends right now... that may be the easiest thing to do... love takes time.. and you cant make someone fall in love with you.... if she likes you she will like you if not.. then dont push her too far.. you may end up with nothing.. and having her as a friend would be better than not having her at all, right??? Just be patient....
2006-09-08 19:18:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be your self!!!!!!! u dont want her to like u 4 some1 ur not. and u wont be able to do it 4 a long time. do nice things 4 her that u know shell like. so that u catch her attention. show her u care about her by defending her or sticking up 4 her being there 4 her if she needs a shoulder to cry on and lisen to her. i know id be in love if a guy did that 4 me.
2006-09-08 19:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by broken flame 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident......go to her and tell her that you like her.
Remember: We might lose someone by saying "I love you". But we lose more often by not saying "I love you."
GO. Take your chances. Tell her how you feel about her and your feelings are true. And if she says no, dont give up.
Not giving up doesn't mean bothering her. Just stay nice to her. Let her know that your love is unconditional. And if it is meant to be, she would come back to you.
Best of luck!!! :)
Not giving
2006-09-08 19:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by Akshat S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too nice - borderline p-u-s-s-y probably
First, you need to act confidently (almost cocky)
Important that you have the mindset that you really DON'T CARE if she's interested or not. Infact, ignore her altogether.
2006-09-08 19:16:50 · answer #5 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple... just when you see her don't act all scared and crazy, just tell her how nice she looks, or how good she smells. ask her out to eat, but sooner or later you are gonna have to tell her. hey you never know she may feel the same
2006-09-08 19:19:02 · answer #6 · answered by dustin b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok.....hmmm?get a wingman.some1 2 find out if she likes you!or u can pretend u were zapped & ask her out.if she says no then make it obvious 2 her that it was zap!
2006-09-08 19:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by popsicle230 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself.when she likes u she likes u how u are.u cant force her to like u,so let her find out that u are a nice guy and like i said....be yourself...
2006-09-08 19:28:54 · answer #8 · answered by starlight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be kind to her and patient girls love that trust me.
2006-09-08 19:16:09 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she is lesbian or bisexual, chances are you won't be able to get her to like you. If you are really desperate, you could play truth or dare and kiss her or something...
2006-09-08 19:17:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋