why is everyone blaming me for being pregnant..the condom broke and besides were getting married in may..whats the biggy? ill be 19 in july too..is it that bad.....we have our own place...?!-our families are fine too...WTF
2006-09-08 12:04:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Btw im NOT calling my baby an acident i plan to keep her/him and we wanted a kid but its just a bit sooner thats all :D
2006-09-08 12:14:03 · update #1
i do not see a problem. Glad you two are taking care of your responsibilities. Congratulations. I would ignore alot of these people, not to be rude but I have people sending me e-mails that think they know more than me but for some reason my answers just keep getting picked best. I think peoples problems is Jealousy.
2006-09-08 12:08:35 · answer #1 · answered by sr22racing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is why do you care so much what other people are saying to you that's negative...I think 19 is too young to have a kid, but who am I to you? NO ONE!! So why does it matter? Am I going to help you raise your child? HELL NO. Am I putting food in your kids mouth? HELL NO. Maybe thru welfare, but other than that, why do you care so much and feel the need to explain yourself?
People are going to talk crap regardless of what situation you are in. Get used to it. And the fact that even though you are an adult, you are still young and got pregnant out of wedlock gives them even more to say. But don't worry about it. You have to be harder than that, especially with a baby on the way.
Good luck.
2006-09-08 12:11:18 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what everyone else is thinking and saying because it doesn't matter. You are the one that needs to be happy in your own life, and to live your own life, not what everyone else thinks you should be doing. Don't let anyone ruin this wonderful time in your life. Pregnancy is a beautiful experience, so enjoy it. We only get to expeirience it a few times, and some maybe once, some never. Enjoy your new life, and be happy with your fiancee, and tell everyone else to worry about their own life, and not to worry about yours as you are fine, happy, and its your life to live. Good luck, and congradualations on your baby. Its a wonderful time.
2006-09-08 12:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by shrimpseys 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they thought you should have been on the pill, or not having sex in the first place. Whatever! All's well that ends well, right? You're getting married and your baby will have two loving parents that will welcome it into the world even if it did come ahead of plan!
2006-09-08 12:13:46 · answer #4 · answered by pessimoptimist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as I am concerned your life is no one's business so if you get so defensive you are showing signs of immaturity so I wouldn't say anything else, you do not have to tell everyone your reasons, it is your life and no one cares, but getting so defensive makes you look BAD, and I don't think you are ready for a baby, you sound SO childish!
2006-09-08 12:15:27 · answer #5 · answered by Lilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had sex, you got pregnant.
Was having sex an accident? If you had sex on purpose, you ought to plan on becoming pregnant. Why wait until May? Get married now and let that baby be legitimate.
2006-09-08 12:43:06 · answer #6 · answered by wbecca52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about what other people say, especially people that dont even know you, sometimes accidents do happen if they dont understand that then to bad...Its your life not theirs. If your happy with it thats all that matters. Good luck to you!!!
2006-09-08 12:32:25 · answer #7 · answered by VaLeRieZ_MaMii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is everyone? Does this make me no one cuz I wouldn't blame you.... if I'm no one than no one blames you. LOL ; )
Pregnancy can get your hormones whirling, so relax and do what is right and good for you & your child and everything will be fine.
2006-09-08 12:10:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wasn't an "accident". It was a "surprise".
Don't worry about it. Things happen for a reason.
Good luck and congratulations.
2006-09-08 13:14:12 · answer #9 · answered by Juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be a good mother and don't pay any attention to what other people think . As long as y'all are happy. That is all that matters.
2006-09-08 12:11:36 · answer #10 · answered by Cricket 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋