we lived 2gether 7 yrs was 2gether 9 with our 6 yr old son then last year he f****d off with some1 else and kicked us out
2006-09-08 11:59:06 · 12 answers · asked by louisejess3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get a lawyer or call Legal Aid. Don't get screwed.
2006-09-08 12:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by fastfrank7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably entitled to just about half his net worth plus support payments for a while. Whose name is on the mortgage, who paid for it, whether your son is his or not and whether you were married or not are almost entirely irrelevant.
BTW, if you can't afford a lawyer, go for a cosultation (usually free) and tell the lawyer to have the court order the exec to pay your legal fees. You're entitled.
Also, you should be able to get (the court to order) emergency money from him (if you need it).
2006-09-08 12:01:17 · answer #2 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. If you live in a "community property" state (California is one of them) you may be able to. Might be worth it to shell out some bucks and hire an attorney for this one. Not sure how long you have to live together in order for you to be considered his common-law wife - 9 years might qualify you. Look in your local phone book under "Attorneys" and check out some of their ads - in California, some attorneys will give you a free initial consultation with no obligation. That way, you can find out (for free!) if you have a case that is worth pursuing. Some will even allow you to make payments, should you decide to hire one. If that is not an option for you financially, check and see if you qualify for free legal services, such as legal aid or a legal clinic. They will probably be listed in your local phone book under "Legal." Also, I hope you are collecting child support from your ex for your son. It's kind of hard for me to advise you, because I don't know what state you live in, but in California (where I live) the best way to collect child support (from my experience anyway), especially if you have someone who is irresponsible about paying their financial obligations, is go to your local District Attorneys Office and open a child support case with them. That way, the monthly amount of child support will be established, and it will be automatically deducted (usually twice a month) from your ex's paycheck, and sent directly to you. This however, may not work so well if you have an ex that is constantly changing jobs (it will be up to you to report his new employer to the DA's office, because he probably won't do it), or is constantly getting fired, quitting his job, or has long periods of unemployment. Sorry this is so long - hope it helps and best of luck to you and your son.
2006-09-08 12:30:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was married only my name was on the mortgage and when I kicked him out he got nothing and I went on to sell my house at a nice profit.But I live in the UK so depends where you live i guess.
2006-09-08 12:10:21 · answer #4 · answered by candyfloss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you weren't married and your name isn't on the mortgage then you are basically SOL. If you have either of the two then it is half yours.
2006-09-08 12:07:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
check with local state laws concerning division of property and children. If he's been unfaithful, then you can have the upper hand.
2006-09-08 12:06:07 · answer #6 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u weren't married officially and he was the one paying mortgage it is very unlikely u will get anything. but i would consult a lower anyway
2006-09-08 20:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What state are you in...In Wisconsin, doesn't matter whose name is on the mortgage. If you guys are married, it's yours too.
2006-09-08 12:00:41 · answer #8 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
need an attorney to answer that one. in some states, yes, if son is proven to be his.
2006-09-08 12:00:46 · answer #9 · answered by bbwgoddess60 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it girl make him raise your half of the property and hand it over.
2006-09-08 12:03:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋