ok so some people say wait untill you married to enjoy things , and i say how do you know if you're gonna get married : could you get deadly cancer and die ,could you have accident and die ,could your bf/gf cheating on you, could you die tomorrow . how do you know your future is god tells you ???
2006-09-08 11:55:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
ok these things is happen everyday
2006-09-08 12:01:59 · update #1
hey ryhan's mom or with is your nick name , dont be jerk , this is a serious question
2006-09-08 12:05:21 · update #2
you dont. so do what you want and what makes you happy. have fun and just live life.
2006-09-08 11:59:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Serious answer---you don't know your future. . . only God knows.
Could something happen to you? yes. Does that change how you should behave? No.
God created us to have fellowship with Him and others of His creation. That includes, among myriad other things, sex. However, God also expects (as do your parents) obedience to His commandments. He wants you to have the best life you can have and if you follow His plan for your life (as is found in the Word of God, the Bible) you will. Will everything be perfect or work out the way you want? Probably not because we are egocentric in nature (really into ourselves and our wants).
The bottom line is this: If you follow God's plan for your life you don't have to worry about what will or what won't happen because God's plan for your life is better than your plan for you life. That includes EVERYTHING, bf/gfs, marriage, kids, school, social life, etc.
You wanted a straight answer. That is it. Some people say do what feels good and then you read of all these problems here (bf/gf problems, pregnancy, drugs, alcohol, sexual idenity, family issues) and they are screaming for help. Other people say wait for the good things in life when you are ready mentally, physically, psychologically, financially and emotionally and, guess what? When they wait they live stronger, more fulfilled lives. Note, I did not say perfect, without problems, I said stronger, more content, happier, and more fulfilled lifes.
Did that answer you straight?
2006-09-08 19:42:30 · answer #2 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't wait, you'll give yourself to someone who turns out to be a jerk, and then when you find a really nice person, you won't be able to say, "You're the only person who's known that part of me," and you'll feel all bad about it.
2006-09-08 19:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by spunk113 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask yourself...Will I be ready to get a full time job, marry the girl and raise the baby if said girl gets pregnant? Thats how you know your mature enough for sex!
2006-09-08 18:59:01 · answer #4 · answered by Nick Name 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry so much be patient and things will turn out allright. And dont rush things ! Try and find the right moment and person in general for EVERYTHING!
2006-09-08 18:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by uloveme192 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its called destiny. watever happens to u is meant to happen. just make sure to not have a baby at an early age cuz you will regret it cuz u wont be able to go to places u wanna go to and just hang with ur friends and stuff like that. for right now, make the right decisions
2006-09-08 18:57:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
With everything you should think positive its really not that bad to wait to do somethings because you may do it and it wont be worth your time it could get you in to a really bad situation so with what i said think be for you do everything because everything can change your life some how or some way..............................
2006-09-08 19:09:52 · answer #7 · answered by K russ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno man i think that everyday too. In the beggining of the summer i was nearly killed in a random drive by and i spent all summer in the hospital. So do what you want man life is short God isnt there all the time....he nearly took my life many times before....
2006-09-08 19:13:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could also have sex with lots of women and get a deadly STD too! That kind of seals your fate!
2006-09-08 19:01:36 · answer #9 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
step in front of a fast moving bus youll find out
2006-09-08 19:01:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋