I am his best friend, have been there through all the girls even his soon to be ex-wife. He loves me, but what the hell?
2006-09-08 11:42:25 · 18 answers · asked by tonias28 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
We have been intimate over the years, stuck through his and mine marriage, talk constantly, I have helped him with every relationship, and him with mine. What do I do?
2006-09-08 12:32:43 · update #1
Why are you waiting for him to make the move. Why don't you approach him about your feelings.
2006-09-08 11:53:22 · answer #1 · answered by jtj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried asking HIM?
You guys obviously have an incredible and strong friendship. All these women that you talk of have come into his life and left again, and none of them have stopped to be a friend like you have. Can you imagine how awful it would be for the both of you if a similar thing happened after you went out? If you're working so insanely as friends... well, don't fix what aint broke, right?
2006-09-08 11:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by Pebbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just sees you as just amazing friend that he couldn't imagine living life without.. but as only a friend. If you have feelings for him, maybe you should have a conversation with him about it.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-08 11:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently not- If he did he would marry you. But maybe he just doesn't know what he wants. If that's the case, then you need to tell him that you want to marry him and if thats not what he wants then you want some space. After a while he will realize how much he misses you and will come running.
2006-09-08 11:46:13 · answer #4 · answered by htowngirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question there sweetheart. You are everything to him- as a bestfriend. Full stop. No romantic nuances in his head. Best u save the romantic hopes for someone else?
2006-09-08 11:47:08 · answer #5 · answered by J*LO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the next time you get a chance just give him a tap kiss on the lips, just a tap....that will be the deciding factor...he'll either turn to you for more or walk away.... if he walks away, dont take it personal because he considers you a friend...(kind of like kissing your sister, its just wierd) he will still want to be friends. he also might be afraid of trusting another woman if his ex burned him that bad.
2006-09-08 11:50:22 · answer #6 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be nothing more than a good and dear friend to him. If you have feelings for him, why have you never told him? I would not suggest doing it at this very moment, but ask yourself why you have not told him how you feel.
2006-09-08 11:46:49 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's really moral, and won't take the next step until his wife is his ex.
2006-09-08 11:47:35 · answer #8 · answered by walkerzo2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just is afraid to ruin a good thing. It will never be the same if you take that step.
2006-09-08 11:46:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably considers you as a good friend rather than a GIRL FRIEND. Seduce or ask him out.
2006-09-08 11:44:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋