With my ex, we broke up a week ago but we both still love each other but i dont know if he sees me as more of a friend now. He came over tonight n there was definitely some sparks there. In time will we realise we should try again? i still love him
2006-09-08 11:27:14 · 17 answers · asked by roxysmilegirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
together for a year and a half. broke up cos there was no lust was more friendly than sexy but tht cud come back surely?
2006-09-08 11:47:05 · update #1
why did you break up? we really need a lot more info to be able to answer such a question. how long were you together? etc......
2006-09-08 11:31:48 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey relationships need to be worked at this includes keeping the sex alive but that shouldn't be a reason to split up most people who love each other are each others best friend so are you sure he is being totally honest with you if you are on a break at the moment try and not let him come around as and when he feels like it and definitely no hankey pankey and maybe some real time away from each other will bring you back together stronger than before or it will make you both realise your heading in different directions hope you find happiness in whatever you do
2006-09-11 21:46:09 · answer #2 · answered by evidrats 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex may be using you right now. It really depends on why you broke off the relationship. If it was over a silly argument, kiss and make up. If it was something more serious (and you know if that is the case) you really need to think things over. Give each other space and only meet in public places for awhile so you won't be caught in compromising situations. It's hard to make a decision if you spend too much time together, even if it is as friends. And if you really love each other, you will survive the test of time. Good luck.
2006-09-08 16:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I did the same thing a few times..then I asked my self if it was just a booty call.. I asked earlier today check it out..Plus why did you break up in the first place? Try again and fix what went wrong.. We put up with crazy things when we care more about the ones we love..they just don't see it. Good luck
2006-09-08 11:39:10 · answer #4 · answered by Sissy Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'mon, you broke up for a reason, didn't you??? Unless you just flipped a coin or something. He came over and there were "sparks", yeah right! He wants some pu$$y, is all, and you're being a sucker.
Dump his a** and move on.
2006-09-08 11:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by codex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on if you love him or if it is due to the fact that he is "the norm" or what you know so it is easy to go along with instead of finding someone new. You have to figure out why you broke up and of cause it depends on if he feels the same. If you do then go for it!!!
2006-09-08 11:31:15 · answer #6 · answered by damien r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful that you don't fall into the habbit of being with each other with out being together.
i did that with my ex for two yerars. He got all the benifits of a girlfriend with out having a girlfriend.
In the end I was heat broken.
Good luck.
2006-09-08 11:34:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up for a reason,so whats going to be there now that wasn't before,in my experience your just going back to the same old crap
2006-09-08 12:12:31 · answer #8 · answered by candyfloss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my experience that feeling doesn't come back it only drifts farther away, i may be wrong though.
you can still love someone but not be in love with them....sometimes a couple just dont have the glue thats needed to keep them together long term. xx
2006-09-12 11:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by Girl From Mars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you break up? if it was a legit reason, then you need to ask yourself is it worth getting back together, a relationship is more then about love. Think about!
2006-09-08 11:33:59 · answer #10 · answered by Brezzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. its over for a reason.
if you get back with him you will split again for nearly almost certainly the very same reason only next time it'll hurt you even more.
its the weekend go out on the pull and get someone else.
2006-09-08 12:22:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋