My bf and I have been together for almost 2 years and we are happy but we do fight, he likes to hurt my feelin and make me feel neglected and I hate that, I feel like he can do or say whatever he wants but I can't do him nothin, but I kno he still loves me and even though me makes me cry I still love him..
whereas my friend I love talkin to him, he alwayz makes me feel special and he can alwayz cheer me up when i'm sad and he is also havin problem with his girl too...and we both love talkin to each for long hours..and we been talkin bout gettin together for ( u to do u kno what) and we alwayz be talkin bout if we belonged to each that we would never fight and that we would treat each so much better,and we call each other sweet nick names etc.
I wanna kno if he just want a one night stand or does he really like me...cuz i really like him... and well if he does really like me ..should I stay with my bf or what?
2006-09-08 11:11:13 · 11 answers · asked by Keyshia12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What your doing is still called cheating,and it sounds like your so-called friend just wants a booty call.Don't put yourself out there like that.If you can't reason with your boyfriend,then leave and find yourself someone else.But beware of the so-called friend,if or when you give it up to him,he'll still never leave his girlfriend,then where will you be?Dump them both!
2006-09-08 11:20:00 · answer #1 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God!! You are to dependant and dramatic to be in a relationship. You talk about how you "love" this guy. No you don't. Rather, he does not love you is more like it. I'm sure you've been told before. Get out of a relationship that makes you feel bad. You stay in it because girls like you like the security of a boyfriend, and hope something good will come out of it. It hasn't and it won't. Grow up! What are you 12? There's no reason you should be talking to another guy like this when you're in a relationship unless you're a whore. Quit sneaking around and grow some balls, or boobs. Drama is the last thing you need.
2006-09-08 18:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by Jon B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your bf LIKES to hurt your feelings, he doesn't REALLY love you and you should drop him! It would be bad enough if he were accidentally hurting your feelings once in awhile, but for him to take joy in it is AWFUL!! Even if he were making you cry occasionally and didn't mean to, I'd tell you he wasn't the right guy for you. As it is ... Don't tolerate it. Get rid of him.
THEN, IF the other guy decides to break up with his gf, THEN you can consider getting together with him and find out if he is interested in you as a one night stand or as a long-time commitment. But don't stay with your current bf and cheat on him with this guy. That's not going to do anyone any good!
2006-09-08 18:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by baeb47 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok kiddo, take a step back and analyse your feelings. You absolutely do not 'love your bf' or you wouldn't have wandering eyes. Your bf sounds as if he needs to grow up some.
See where this relationship can go but don't jump into the one night stand until you really get to know each other. Give it awhile. Take things slower and you will appreciate each other that much more. Good Luck.
2006-09-08 18:19:04 · answer #4 · answered by Harley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The grass always looks greener on the other side. A one ngiht stand won't solve anything. If you like th is person you are thinking about sleeping with you are probably gonna want a relationship. If ya'll end up together how can ya'll trust eachother if you know how ya'll hooked up?
2006-09-08 18:24:47 · answer #5 · answered by Tori B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, whatever you do, don't cheat on ur guy. And you should wait for a bit to see if he likes you or just wants a one-night-stand. But I would try the other guy if ur bf makes you cry...
2006-09-08 18:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by Vshak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is a question only you can answer, you have to ask yourself if it is worth you trying to save your relationship with your boyfriend? and go on and find another boyfriend. As far as the other friend is concern, you only know one side of the story, They say anything to get what they want.
2006-09-08 18:23:29 · answer #7 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should stay with your bf cause how would you feel if he wanted to leave you for another girl, i mean sure you can still like the other guy, and IF you and your bf brake up l8ter in life and the other guy is avalible than GO FOR IT!, lol
well good luck
2006-09-08 18:15:31 · answer #8 · answered by Halley m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
introduce your bf to his gf and try to get them together
2006-09-08 18:13:57 · answer #9 · answered by CH CH CH CHIA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask his girlfriend if she wants to swap boyfriends every other week.
2006-09-08 18:17:46 · answer #10 · answered by Lilly K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋