I think i'm so straight, i don't even find myself as a male, sexually atractive. I think being a guy is gross. Can I turn into a female lesbian? I hate smelling my semen.
2006-09-08 10:49:29 · 28 answers · asked by ? 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
oops, a tyo there in the question.
2006-09-08 10:49:46 · update #1
Another fantasy I have is being completely sexless. Remove all my parts private(prostate, penis, and testicles) and walk around with no bothersome bag down there.
2006-09-08 10:51:36 · update #2
Actually, it's not all that uncommon. A lot of guys feel like they have a feminine aspect to them, but can't imagine having sexual feelings for men. Some men act on this in different ways, such as cross-dressing or engaging in stereotypically female activities. Some go further by taking estrogen or having gender-reassignment surgery, yet all the time they prefer sexuality with women.
In your case, you might be looking at a desire for a moderate to extreme shift in your gender identity. While I'm not saying that you're crazy or anything like that, I would recommend seeing a trained counselor about this. After all, it's your psyche that we are talking about, and you should find out where it wants to go.
I wish you well in whatever happens.
2006-09-08 13:50:13 · answer #1 · answered by Ѕємι~Мαđ ŠçїєŋŧιѕТ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are weird for smelling yourself, what kind of **** is that. As for you being a lesbian trapped in a man's body, that's ridiculous. You are not a woman, therefore you cannot be a lesbian. I serially think you need to holla at Dr. Phil or Dr. Ruth. You need help seriously. There is nothing I can say to help you find the answer you're looking for. Professional is out there.
2006-09-08 11:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by Shawn B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not making this up, I actually know somebody who did change from a man to a woman, but still stayed married, and sexually active with his(?) wife. I think it's an "open" relationship, though, so I think what we've got here is a bi-sexual, ex-male swinger and a bi-sexual female swinger who are married to each other. Is it time for the second coming yet? Do I still have time for a drink?
2006-09-08 10:58:19 · answer #3 · answered by josephine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm..strange, but it has happened and guys have had sex changes and still desire to be with woman-if it feels natural for you to be a woman who desires other women then do what feels right but first go through a psychological evaluation to prepare you for this transformation....So, you are most likely a lesbian in a man's body...oh and why would you smell your own Semen disgusts you so much? That is the weird part if it.
2006-09-08 10:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by Wheels 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Speaking as a person who has some contact with transgenders and transsexuals, I would say your situation is not that unusual.
The majority of transsexuals have initially a preference for hetero sex, i.e. with women for M-Fs. Although hormone treatment does in some people tip the preference towards sex with males, it often doesn't so quite a lot of M-F transsexuals are lesbian. I would not say you are weird, although you are inevitably going to face some really tough lifestyle choices. I wish you luck.
2006-09-08 11:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by Augusta B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sir, sound like a male lesbian...It's nothing to be ashamed of, just like being gay isn't anything to be ashamed of.
A male lesbian is a man who likes sex with women, but as a woman would have sex with a woman. (Thank you L-Word)
If you do consider a sex change operation, then I do recommend going to a psychologist. Maybe he/she can help you sort out what you really want.
I hope I helped you... :)
2006-09-08 11:01:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are a transsexual: a woman (who sexually identify as a lesbian) trapped in a man's body. Talking to someone who deals with gender identity issues would probably help you tremendously....and no, I don't think you are weird.
2006-09-08 18:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by jax1962 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a guy is gross. I am glad you want to be a lesbian. I am a lesbian myself and I would never want to go back to eating like a pig and farting at inappropriate times. And as a lesbian, I can still watch football and use power tools. So it is a great lifestyle.
2006-09-08 10:53:47 · answer #8 · answered by Isis 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you are weird. I do think that we cannot decide what sex we are at birth. However, having a sex exchange surgery could be damaging to your health and so does injecting female hormones. However, you can dress up like a girl if you want. Cross dressing could be quite fun.
2006-09-08 10:55:33 · answer #9 · answered by Imagination 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not judge you as weird or anything else. There are professionals who work to counsel people through sexual identity crisis and, if appropriate for the individual, into sex change.
Just search your soul and go for it with love, honor, and your head held high.
2006-09-08 10:52:17 · answer #10 · answered by Chuck N 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋