Life!!!!!! J
Isn’t it funny how your life changes instantly?
It’s funny how life changes in seconds just when you think you have it all figured out something new happens…Weird
Friends that say they are your best friend let out little secrets and TRY to ruin your life…
Alot of stress comes off your back when you stop being friends with this person, and the drama stops!
Isn't it hard being the bigger person and not saying something? Do you think it works?
What have you all done when you did nothing wrong…. when losing a friend?
2006-09-08 10:45:31 · 5 answers · asked by Just me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If a person proves not to be trustworthy, and you lose that person as a friend, I'd say you're better off. I have never lost a true friend, but I am pretty careful about whom I choose. I have about three friends whom I've known since kindergarten, and these lifelong friends have never betrayed me. I also have new friends that I enjoy being with, but I don't share any secrets with them until they've proven themselves.
I know it's tough and it hurts. But just pick yourself up and make some new friends. As long as you've done nothing wrong, you have nothing to feel guilty about. Don't sweat the petty things (or is it don't pet the sweaty things??)
2006-09-08 10:57:22 · answer #1 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had your problem when I was in my twenties. What it is really about is that one friend is trying to pin you against your friend for personal gain. What I had to do was to avoid both of them, but at the same time I didn't dis-own them. I just changed my friendship status to distant. I learned a life long lesson because I no longer have any best friends, I just have distant good friendships where I don't try to get involved with other peoples decisions. Don't get me wrong, I have plenty of friends, but as you age people tend to change and when you give people space your true friendships have more value and honor.
2006-09-08 17:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by tadpoleslider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not your friends, so the next time select your Friends more carefully, and do not tell them everything any how, that way they can't go with much. It is not hard to be the bigger person, that is the one, with the common sense. Sometimes it does not make sense to say anything. that way you do not have to regret anything.
2006-09-08 17:55:40 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk friend tell them you feel
2006-09-08 17:48:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-08 17:48:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋