we've been married for 15 yrs & a great sex life, the last few months he's been wanting me to dress him up to like a girl and watch me & another man have sex
2006-09-08 10:37:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I wouldn't do it.. He might just be testing you to see if you would do it.. Then he can turn around and cheat too..
2006-09-08 10:41:52 · answer #1 · answered by momof3isme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for 15 yrs...and i dont want my wife having sex with another man...plus having sex with someone else could lead to have problems in the marriage..he will say it won't.
But it will lead to no good...trust me....the younger woman thing...many men do that..I dont I like women from 30-to 45
not that young teeny boper thing...many men feel like they are in a rut and afriad of growing old and try to go back and many do go cheat and find that young woman..Have I cheated no...I have just seen it happen many times..I'm 37 and know what I'm talking about
2006-09-08 13:25:00 · answer #2 · answered by hononegah1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somethings up here. I mean maybe watching you have sex with another guy borderline. But dressing him up like a girl thats crossing the border. you might want to inquire of the reason behind this.
2006-09-08 10:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by maverick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds weird, but I have heard of worse. Sounds like you both need to go talk to a shrink and find out why this is his fantasy. If he will not go, I would put my foot down and say "I do not want another man". Dress him up like a baby and treat him like he wants to be treated. But NO other people in the bedroom.
2006-09-08 10:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say but your husband has some issues sweetie..... normal men dont request to be dresses up like a woman.
as for the watching you with another man from what I have read in here it seems to be a more frequent thing than I ever would have thought but if you ask me all he is doing is setting it up so that he can end up sleeping with another chick so things are "equal"
2006-09-08 10:45:48 · answer #5 · answered by RedEye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might go as far as dressing up for him, if you are comfortable with that, but could never do what he is asking. If another man is what he is asking you to do, maybe he is wanting another woman.
It really all comes down to you and your wants as well. Ask yourself if you are comfortable doing what he is asking. You know yourself better than anyone.
Down deep you already know your feelings about this.
2006-09-08 10:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by damsel36 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What your husband is asking you to do isn't normal. He is asking you to break your marriage vows which isn't normal either. There is obviously something up with him and you need to work it out. Perhaps think about going to sex therapist - this fantasy of his could be something from his childhood/teen years that has been festering inside him and isn't healthy.
2006-09-08 10:40:34 · answer #7 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
is ur husband a pervert or wat?wat man wud make his wife sleep with another man while he stays there and watch dressed as awoman.u sud say no to him that's not healthy girl.
2006-09-08 12:50:44 · answer #8 · answered by a_raveneau 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it. He must be very secure in your marriage to want to explore in an area like that.
2006-09-10 09:18:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...go along with him...step by slow,step...he may only want the dress up bit....just have a fantasy of the watching you bit....see how you feel...you may like him as a 'girl', you may not...go with that too...he has to respect you as well as you him... enjoy....
2006-09-08 10:44:44 · answer #10 · answered by Susie Drew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋