Is it a good idea for a husband and wife to have seperate bedrooms?

Question

And then it's like a date or sleeps overs insteads of the same thing constantly. I know of a couple that even lives on seperate floors of a home. What do you think of that?

Answer 1

separate bedrooms are ideal for marriage. Traditional approach:the guy snores you can"t get a good night sleep , so your a ***** all day and tired at night and don't want sex, and have a constant headache, Divorce.can't sleep all night because someone snores, get to work late , poor production , no raise , eventually your fired because you are now sleeping at your desk , no money , no job , can't pay the mortgage , ends in Divorce and foreclosure.
Alternate method: everybody has their own bedroom. good night sleep, no bitching, no headaches , more sex . who's room tonight dear? More productive at work , you slept well and got laid almost 4 times this week and your wife is happy . Figure it out , and have an open mind while your thinking about it.

Answer 2

Well, that is a new twist on the old issue of separate bedrooms. As a date or sleepover when the couple gets together in the same bed sounds an exciting solution, if a bit odd. Maybe it wouldn't be such a bad thing; especially if the "dates" were made memorable in some special way. But other than for health reasons, I don't think it's generally wise for a couple to sleep separately. I think it promotes distance, physical as well as emotional distance, the later which likely already exists in at least one person.

I work at night, albeit at home, and don't often enough sleep in bed with my wife because I don't want to disturb her when I do come to bed. At these times, I sleep in a recliner, either in my office or one in the living room. My wife now stays up late, so we talk to one another when I take a break, then she sleeps late in the morning; so we are up about the same time. We're home together all day and have that time together if we like. I prefer sleeping in bed, but it's not as possible as I'd like.

Answer 3

No, you miss out on the intimacy, not just sexual. Turning over in the middle of the night and cuddling up, etc. My husband and I would be able to provide perfect rationale for separate bedrooms - he snores like a buzz saw and I have insomnia - but I won't give up the closeness. We even only have a double bed so there's less room to escape each other.

Answer 4

I imagine there's a reason for it. My boyfriend snores, sometimes I go downstairs and sleep on the couch if he's having a particularly bad night. It's not his fault he snores, he's asleep, it's not like he can control it, and it's not fair to him to wake him up every night a bunch of times a night. I don't love him any less because he snores. We both need our rest. I'm worthless at work without a solid 8 hours of sleep. So I understand if it's particularly necessary to sleep in different rooms. I really don't see how this has any bearing on sex, given both still want it with each other. My boyfriend and I still have a very active sex life, regardless of his snoring. *shrug*

Answer 5

Well I know of people who slept in seperate bedrooms and are considering getting a divorce soon becuase they just lost interest in each other. I think it's definitely ideal for a husband in wife to sleep together :)

Answer 6

I think couples do that that aren't much into eachother physically anymore. My best friend's parents slept in different bedrooms and I never understood why. They seemed to be in love with eachother, but they never did anything physical anymore. That makes it more like you just have a roommate instead of a husband/wife.

Answer 7

I can't imagine not wanting to sleep with my wife- the snoring kind. But, to each his own. If it works for a marriage, and doesn't hurt anyone; almost anything a married couple wants to do is up to them. But, there is never justification for crackers in bed. THAT is wrong. LOL

Answer 8

I think it's up to the people in the marriage- it's okay as long as they are both completely okay with it. My husband and I are both light sleepers and we sleep on separate beds in the same room because of it. We would sleep in the same bed if we had a king size bed, but we cannot afford it right now. On our honeymoon we slept in a king size bed and it was perfect...

Answer 9

I don't think it's a good idea for me.But whatever works out for you and others depends on if you like it or not.Some people do sleep in separate rooms and have a good marriage.

Answer 10

Part of marriage is living together and sharing life. I think you would miss out on a lot if you didn't have this opertunity.