The size of his manhood? Or WHO he is? Please don't think I'm some insecure guy, I'm in a debate with someone, who believes the former outweighs the latter. Whereas I believe you look at it more relationship-wise as opposed to sex life. I know they coincide often, but which is more important? Please help prove me wrong or right!
2006-09-08 10:29:10 · 31 answers · asked by Jack!! 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
WHO he is...............really that would make the size of his manhood in a way. That shouldn't be important. If a female really wants you for you than that shouldn't matter.
2006-09-08 10:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Callie Ann ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, what do you mean by "who he is?" do you mean, what position does he hold? such as: is he a CEO of some company? or something like that?
or is it more like the way the first person answered this question...???
well, I'm gonna answer it in the same way SHE did. I would say that in the end it would have to be "the kind of person that he is." not the size of his manhood.
I suppose the size of his manhood would matter if he was a one-night-stand. but if he was a jerk, I would not want to be with him.
Then again...if I liked "who he was" and his manhood wasn't all that, I might be inclined to get bored of him or frustrated at some point because he was not meeting all my needs...and move on. I would love to have a combination of both.
My final answer, if I had to choose between one or the other and I had NO OTHER CHOICE, I would choose to be with a man for "who he is."
2006-09-08 12:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by one_sera_phim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who he is -- most definitely. "Manhood" size truly does not matter. A women has more sensation within the first 1-1/2 to 3 inches of her "womenhood" so anything beyond that is simply excess or not serving as much purpose.
As well enthusiastic "romance" prior to the actual act goes very, very, very far.
Knowing you have a relationship worth devoting time and commitment to far outweighs a 9" manhood.
2006-09-08 10:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by cdnponygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who he is as a person is much more important than the size of his manhood. Let's get real when you get right down to it who can enjoy sex with someone you dislike!! It's good a few times then after that you're ready to move on. To connect and have great sex for years you must be connected to this person for other reasons!!!!!
2006-09-08 10:33:19 · answer #4 · answered by concerned 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is NEVER everything and is not dramatically important in an relationship. One who belives this will probably not have a good marriage life if they think sex is more important. The relationship and personality far outweigh anything. You will not be happy with a grumpy, bossy, mean and selfish person- no matter how good they are in "you know what".
2006-09-08 10:36:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who he is> When you want to commit for life you dont marry the pecker, you marry the man!Other then spit up from time to time what does it really do? The man buys the flowers, the man holds open the car door, the man understands when you arent feeling well an brings you some soup and crackers, ect. Lol sorry, it just kind of annoys me when someone thinks size is more important then just being your self. Cheers! Hope you get enough answers to prove him wrong.
2006-09-08 12:13:24 · answer #6 · answered by mother_of_bonehead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who he is far out weighs his "size". Believe me after 15 years of marriage it's nice to be with someone who is your best friend. The sex may not be wild hot monkey love sex, but we are comfortable enough to try so many new things sex wise with each other. That can only happen when you really trust someone. Good Luck with your Debate!
2006-09-08 10:36:55 · answer #7 · answered by Yvonne D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me what matters is who he is as a person. your not going to spend the entire time your with someone in the sack making it. However you'll spend a lot of time just sitting and talking to someone. There's going to be times where you just spend that quiet time with someone and nothing is going on. What's important when it comes to manhood is whether or not it's a loving act or just something to do to kill some time before doing something else.
2006-09-08 10:34:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, who he is of course. But I don't like it when his manhood is the size of a baseball bat. If he's a really great person, I'd find a way to work around that though.
2006-09-08 12:11:08 · answer #9 · answered by chocolatebunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds corny, but it depends on how much that person means to you. As a f**k buddy, I would say that it is either size or how he uses it. In a lover or a boyfriend, it is more emotional and it is less about how big it is.
I personally believe that it is how much passion the person has. How much do they enjoy that time with you, truly. Not, do they like to do it. Who doesn't?!? But seriously, are they compassionate and make you feel wanted, truly. Then... it won't matter, because you will want them also.
2006-09-08 12:12:30 · answer #10 · answered by wingnutrosie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋