How do you deal with your friend flirting with your man in front of your face!!!!?

Question

I mean a close friend who you thought that wouldn't do that to you.

Answer 1

I've been in this situation before. Confront your man about it and let him put a stop to it.. You could also confront her. She wouldnt want you doing that to her..

Answer 2

Confront her. Is she really flirting or do they just get along well. Ive been mistakingly accused of it and I personally think its pretty gross to be with a friends man.

The thing is, we got caught up talking about an interesting subject and my friend felt left out,and in turn thought I was flirting.

When she told me how she felt, I made SURE to watch myself and stayed away from having conversations that would make her feel that way. And when we did have interesting conversations I made SURE that she was included. I also made it a point to bring my man along instead of being the third wheel.

I was insulted at first, but I was glad she said something because I wanted her to know that I would NEVER do that to her.

Answer 3

U have to tell her that u don't like that sort of behaviour. If she is a really goodfriend. she will back off. And by the way, do u trust ur man and ur friend. Do u think either will betray u? These are the questions u must ask urself.

normally friends find it amusing flirt around their friends spouses. So i hope u r not over reacting. If u r not convinced then just tell ur friend.

Answer 4

Well, I'll say this, if she was really a "REAL" friend, she would do nothing, absolutely nothing, to cause you to even think that she would be interested in your man! You need to address this issue, now! It doesn't really matter whether or not he is responding to her, (AND I HOPE HE ISN'T) you need to let her know how you feel about her flirting with him. If she continues after you address the issue, then you have to question her loyalty to you in the aspect of the respect she has for your feelings, and your man.

Answer 5

A real friend wouldn't do this. Get rid of her before things get worse. This is the type of girl who sleeps with your man, than cries and apoligizes, then goes and does it again. She needs to go and you need to also tell your man that it pisses you off and ask him to speak up about it.

Answer 6

It depends if she's really, definitely flirting or just being friendly. You want your friends and your boyfriend to get along, right, just not THAT well. If you think she might have crossed a line, just talk to her about it. If it's really obvious though that her intention was to hit on him, she's not a real friend.

Answer 7

Does your man flirt back and kick it to your friend? Doesn't he tell her he is taken?

Is your man interested or act interested in your friend? If he does, it may not be your friend you should be concerned with.

I'd be more concerned about where my significant others loyalty is.

Answer 8

Well im a big flirt , buy i would never do anything to hurt my friends feelings. Tell her that your not with it and if she's your true friend she'll stop.

Answer 9

If she really did that ,she isn't your friend.A friend would know it was your man and she wouldnt want to ruin friendship or your feelings hurt...if she dont understand then..SMACK HER HARD..I hope that helps as im trying to get 10 points for level 2

Answer 10

You get her straight once and for all, and tell her, Don" you ever do that again, can't you find yourself someone, so you won't have to hit on mine. Tell her as a friend I would not have done that to you. does this mean that I can't trust you with my man?