2006-09-08 10:22:50 · 20 answers · asked by hoddie518 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
I don't think you mean, "at the same time" so we have to assume that your boyfriend doesn't know about you still sleeping with your ex.
First of all, the person who said you need protection is right, but I would think your men might need it a little more. After all, the risk is higher for them unless they are also sleeping around.
My first impulse is to say that you really should choose between one or the other, but that's just what I would do. If they are both okay with this, then it's not as big of a problem - as long as they know about it and aren't going to get jealous and shoot each other. You would feel awful if someone you loved got killed by someone else you love. You might end up feeling a little responsible for the ordeal.
If you are going to try to keep the whole thing secret, then you are taking a big emotional risk, for both you and your lovers. Someone is bound to get their feelings hurt. It could even be you.
But what you also need to consider is how your self-esteem is going to hold up. Personally, I would feel like I was doing something wrong and I would try to change something so that I didn't have to live with the shame and/or regret. If you want to feel proud of your actions throughout life, then simply make the decisions that you will be most proud of. Someone once said, " Don't do anything you wouldn't want to see on the front page of the newspapers." Seems like a good rule of thumb.
But this is all just practical advice. There may be some other issues that need to be addressed. If you are attracted to the wild and/or wreckless, self-destructive relationships, then it might be better to choose the guy who is a little less exciting, but a lot more stable than the wild one. The wild relationship might be a lot more exciting, but it's not likely to last nearly as long.
2006-09-08 10:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by Jude Scott 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you're using protection, i'm sure your ex boyfriend is dipping in other women, besides you. It doesn't seem like you're being very considerate about how your boyfriend would feel, if he found out. Remember, your boyfriend is not only sleeping with you, but he's sleeping with every single woman, that your ex is sleeping with. My advice to you, stop it, before you catch something, you can't get rid of.
2006-09-08 10:31:03 · answer #2 · answered by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a recipe for disaster. Think about how you would feel if you found out your boyfriend was still sleeping with his ex. If it were me I would be devestated. I like to live by the whole treat others as you would like to be treated thing. I know it's not always so simple or easy, but good luck.
2006-09-08 10:27:14 · answer #3 · answered by Monika S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm....I think there is something wrong with your ex and your boyfriend.
2006-09-08 10:26:09 · answer #4 · answered by oldone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u's a hoe, hope u stop or at least be with one, cause its gonna bite u in the *** later on.
2006-09-08 10:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by devanarestylez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does that have to do with this category, Fashion and Accessories?
2006-09-08 14:10:33 · answer #6 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u r a cheater girl and , stop doing this thing coz it is not agood thing
2006-09-08 10:26:59 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Barbie girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now just get em together to gang bang you reel good.
2006-09-08 10:29:24 · answer #8 · answered by j t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your doing both, then ur a sl*t
2006-09-08 10:26:03 · answer #9 · answered by Momo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you like, but remember, karma WILL come back and bite you in the ***.....ferociously!!
2006-09-08 10:27:52 · answer #10 · answered by Red Crayon Aristocrat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋