2006-09-08 10:22:34 · 17 answers · asked by Kat 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Every time he goes.
2006-09-08 10:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by mjkinoh 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should NEVER go to a strip club with your man, and he should never go with or without you if he is in a comitted relationship with you. I can tell you from experience. When I was married to my first husband we started going to strip clubs together thinking that if we went together we would never go without one another! Well, thats BS! I never went in a strip club without him bc I didn't approve of them anyway, but just as soon as he thought he could get away with it he was in a strip club every chance he got. It eventually broke our family up, our marriage, kids, home, etc etc. I found out he was sleeping around with those whores who work in those places. I was totally devastated! 13 years of marriage down the tubes for what? To look at women who have no respect for themselves? I lost my husband and my kids lost their father over this stupidity! So, NOT WORTH IT!! So, please don't approve of this. Don't go with him and you should tell him that he shouldn't go either, ever! I promise if you do keep doing that together, it won't be long and your relationship will be a thing of the past. I had to learn the hard way, so I'm trying to tell you so you won't have to learn that way. Good luck! Hope all works out for you two.
2006-09-08 10:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by SeaMistress 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never, Speaking as a man....it's only condoning that lusting after another woman is ok.
Are you Really ok with that? I've Never met a woman that deeply inside would be ok with her husband lusting after Another woman. Are you deniying that fact because you want to look "cool" or save the marrage?
I'd Have a low key conversation with hubby...no arguements or loud talking... ask what it is about your realtionship is out of wack to the point he feels the need to want to check out other women do the nasty...make sure you let him know you love him but ....tell him he needs to see this from your point of view (he's not considering that now) and tell him you guys have just got off track from where you were when you got married...ask him where he see's the problem started at. Best wishes!
2006-09-08 10:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by Beach Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everytime he goes, support you man, get a lap dance you'll love it. You should take him to strip clubs where Men strip and see how he likes it too.
2006-09-08 10:57:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, which sex is stripping, male or female. if it's a female strip club and you don't mind frequenting it, go as often as YOU fell comfortable w/. i can't imagine your man wanting to go to a male strip club, but if he doesn't, try persuading him to let you go so you can come home, hot to trot, anxiously awaiting his services. that should put a smile on his face.
2006-09-08 10:28:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never if you want a really monogamous relationship. Now and then if you are in the relationship for fun. Go without him if you dig chicks. If he goes without you he is still in the market for someone else.
2006-09-08 10:27:51 · answer #6 · answered by GiGi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. thats foul. get some class. My friend did that to be 'cool' but it turned out he cheated on her thinking she wouldnt mind and he said she gave him those kind of singnals. Y would you want your man getting hard for another woman while screwing you>
2006-09-08 10:25:14 · answer #7 · answered by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's one relationship that won't last. Man, what women will do these days just to have a "man." Sheep
2006-09-08 10:24:28 · answer #8 · answered by Nani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 times a week
2006-09-08 10:23:52 · answer #9 · answered by Al Bundy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As often as you like.
2006-09-08 10:24:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say not at all but i guess it boils down to personal choice
2006-09-08 10:24:19 · answer #11 · answered by Trish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋