Divorced or not anyone can answer. I am 31 of age, recovering from a breakup, trying my best!. Someone else out there in the same situation that would like to make a group of friends to talk online, share stories to either give or take advice?, I am not needing advices at this time but I think will be nice to just make a group or something to just share how we are going through our process. Kind of a club called "Lets get out of this!!" and lets make it!!!. Of course, I don't have that kind of energies to say or do that, but I think I am not the only one that would like to smile again!
2006-09-08 10:17:35 · 11 answers · asked by livingthe30s 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I do not fit that bill but let make some corrections. This is NOT a recovery process!! You already recovered you ended the negative relationship. What your doing is starting over that's not a recovery! There already exist groups like one your trying to start. "Parents Without Partners" is one. You were not married all your life so it just a matter of learning to be single again. My husband went through this after his ten year first marriage ended and he did so with three kids (He won custody) What he did was focus not in himself but his children and other more important matters. Being alone is not a curse. Your NOT "going through" anything its just a new path and one you have taken before. Sharing stories is great but don't focus on past work on your present and build your future. I know you did not want advice but you needed some. I wont expect Best Answer with this unsolicited advice but I do hope I have gave you something to think about. Remember people aren't always what they portray themselves as online and starting a group sharing stories and "maybe' getting close isn't always safe!! Best Wishes!
2006-09-08 10:31:11 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 16:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are better off without the person.If you did everything you could do, then move on there is someone better for you. Life is hard especially dealing with relationships.We all have been through a break up married or just dating.Anyone who said they have not lied.Life is just beginning for you so embrace it and let go of the past.I know it's hard but trust you will get past it.
2006-09-08 10:40:09 · answer #3 · answered by missmadhatter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Breakups are tough. I think a broken heart is probably just about the worst pain ever. I am not going through a breakup right now, nor do I know how to start a group. However, you can go to Yahoo! Chat and they have tons of chat rooms for situations just like yours.
2006-09-08 10:22:51 · answer #4 · answered by LB 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Right there with you man. The divorce isn't final yet, but I'm already feeling the hurt. My wife of 6 years just suddenly decided to call it quits after being in the army for only 5 months. We've been apart and money problems have been rearing their ugly head, now she's blaming our divorce on me. It hurts soo bad. It feels like she's ruined my life, destroyed my future, and set me back 6 years all at the same time.
2006-09-08 11:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I went through a bad divorce a few years back. I know its hard but soon you will find someone that is perfect you. That person did not deserve you and you just need to realize that and how much better off you will be in the long run. Good luck!
2006-09-08 10:21:25 · answer #6 · answered by Christinamk227 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need a support group. Ask your pastor for some references. At your age you do not want to repeat past mistakes.
Good Luck
G.G.
2006-09-08 10:20:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriends and I had decided to do just that but it was going to be asupport group for women, but now that you''ve spoken I realize we need to include men.
I'm getting over abreak, and it's one of the hardest thing to do when you really love someone.
2006-09-08 10:22:50 · answer #8 · answered by coleman_debby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, Im pregnant and my babys father and I broakup. Its very hard for me Im going threw a hard time. He has moved on and has a new girlfriend, we have only been broaken up for a month. Life sux.
2006-09-08 10:21:14 · answer #9 · answered by Angie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
NO IVE BEEN THERE IVE DONE THAT AND IT SUCKS!! YOU NEED TO KEEP YOURSELF BUSY! AFTER A COUPLE OF BREAK UPS I LEARNED TO PSYCH MYSELF OUT I JUST DIDN'T THINK OF THEM AND SUCKED IT UP!! BUT IF ALL ELSE FELLS MY MOTHER SAID THE BEST WAY TO GET OVER SOMEONE IS TO GET UNDER SOMEONE!!
2006-09-08 10:22:13 · answer #10 · answered by notyochic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋