I need anybody's advice...Guy or girl....I have this friend and she has a friend that she's known for her whole life...OK..Well they dated in 6th grade for a couple of weeks...And after they broke up and he said he didn't want a gf right then so she said ok that's fine with her but she still had feelings for this guy...So the rest of middle school years he never talked to her much....He drifted away from her....Now he's not even looking at her or talking to her...I mean she dresses just for him but he just ignores her I guess...that's what she feels....Well see today at school she was behind him in the car going to school and when he got out he walked up the steps...HE never walks up the steps when she's up there....So does that mean he's ignoring her, doesn't want anything to do with her, or what!?!?! She feels like he doesn't want anything to do with her.....She's scared of loosing her best friend...and All she's wanting is to be best friends again and maybe to start to like him again but he not hurt her.....So if you have anything to say plz do! It will help her a lot if I get anything...
2006-09-08 10:15:45 · 5 answers · asked by gclover20042003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well she basically needs to talk to him alone, she needs to pull him aside and tell him how she feels. Maybe he is thinking the same thing she is. Once your friends then become BF GF, its always weird, but she needs to be an adult about it and just talk to him. The worst that can happen is he will say he does not want to be friends anymore, but then at least she will know how he feels rather than rack her brain trying to find out whats going on. I don't recommend writ ting a letter or calling on the phone, boys tend to be more brave that way, if she approaches him up front then the truth will come out. I hope things work out, keep me informed.
2006-09-08 10:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by grrrrme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't have the same feelings for her that he had all those years. It could have been 'puppy love' If she really wants to be his friend, she'll give him his space. He could also feel like she's trying to hard.
I was in the same situation many years ago. Me and the guy are friends again. We stopped talk grades 7-9, then in grade 9 I called to talk to him, and things were cool. Although we don't talk as much as I would like, it's nice to know I can call him whenever.
2006-09-08 10:23:45 · answer #2 · answered by baddest_ladybug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend should forget about him - it might not be easy but she has to come to the realization that things are not the way they used to be.
Besides I don't know what else she's looking for, the guy already told her he's no longer interest...whether he said for now or not, its quite obvious he meant now and ever.
Best of luck to her.
2006-09-08 10:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by topgun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on his part they were not best friends. yes he is ignoring and doesn't care about her any more. let it be and move on.
2006-09-08 10:26:10 · answer #4 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the hint ,she should move on
2006-09-08 10:21:34 · answer #5 · answered by skotty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋