hi i am 21 year old boy , well i have a little problem , i unwantedly , was acting some how like girls , ofcourse not much but the way i spoke sometimes it was like girls , i am trying rely hard from a long time ago to change my living way , i mean i have been changing the way i speak and act and other things , it would be great if you tell me some realy effective ways to act like a real and mature man . yeh this may sounds stupid but please help me , thank you
2006-09-08 10:06:43 · 9 answers · asked by pashi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Consider joining the Military.
2006-09-08 10:09:54 · answer #1 · answered by budget strapped 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Many people (men) do that without realising. This miostly happens when u grow up around a lot of females, so u tend to sort of blend in them and ultimately have feminine characteristics.
First thing to do is refer to urself as a man, not a boy. Try to take on a more professional attitude towards interacting with people. talk slow and ina steady voice. Not boring slow.....i hope u know what i mean. It must reflect confidence.
Or try to act like some celebrity who in ur opinion is a picture of manliness.
2006-09-08 10:13:50 · answer #2 · answered by WORLD CLASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably effimate. You might be worrying about this too much.
If you try too hard to act manly, you'll look like a fake. It's a subtle thing. Gestures, enunciation, walking style, posture... It all has to agree, otherwise it appears fake.
Is there a chance you're transgendered? Just curious.
2006-09-08 10:11:23 · answer #3 · answered by the_return_of_kojak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually know many femenin man they are married and have children they are certainly not gay
my bother - in- law is one on them
just consentrate fo being happy
1- 80%man are not mature
you seem to be all male and mature to me for just asking
BE HAPPY
2006-09-08 10:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what you mean by acting like a girl.Did someone say you are too sensitive?Perhaps you need to find a sensitive girl who will appreciate a sensitive,kind boy.
2006-09-08 10:09:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow Up.
2006-09-08 10:08:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are gay, just like me, it is ok, find youself a man or be a dragqueen, try to the the show call---- America top model in T,V
2006-09-08 10:12:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe you should talk to some older males in your family for advice
2006-09-08 10:10:00 · answer #8 · answered by imHereAskMe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just change your style
2006-09-08 10:12:53 · answer #9 · answered by hard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋