my husban is cheting on me and i am haveing ababy really soon please help me.
2006-09-08 10:01:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sorry he's cheating on you I know it's got to be hard especially being pregnant my ex bf cheated on me while I was pregnant with our daughter it hurt me really bad but I knew it was time to let him go because I didn't want to have a stressed up pregnancy and I didn't want a guy I would always have to worry about and I didn't want to worry about catching STD's so I let him go your pregnant and you don't need stress put on you you need to focus on your pregnancy not on him cheating I can't tell you how many times I almost miscarried over worrying about him what he was doing and where he was at or who he was with it just wasn't worth it even after we broke up I had alot on me through the heartache and pain I went into premature labor my baby was small she was 4 lbs and 4 oz she about died all through my pregnancy all I did was worry and hurt it wasn't worth all that I about lost my baby cause of him if I were you GET RID OF HIM you and the baby don't need this stress you deserve better after me and my ex bf broke up and I had my baby I met a great guy he even helped me with my daughter he's been there for her always you will find someone better don't put you and your baby through stress
2006-09-08 10:17:50 · answer #1 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know this for fact or do you just suspect he is cheating. When a young couple is expecting a baby many things happen. Usually the woman doesn't feel like having sex for various reasons. The husband feels left out. Don't get me wrong, it's not an excuse for the man to go and cheat but it happens. You need to sit down and discuss this with him. By staying quiet and hoping things will get better after the baby is born is no way to think. That baby will need lots of attention and love from both of you. If he thinks that you don't give him any attention now, wait. Both of you will feel overwhelmed by your new arrival. It's best to find out now where things stand with each other, then to stay together and be miserable. If you keep the lines of communication open in your marriage everything will be okay. Just remember, couples just like you have been making families for centuries, so these feelings that he is having are not out of the norm. Good luck to you and your family.
2006-09-08 17:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you have to go though this when your so close to having the baby. But you need to let him know you don't like it and he needs to decide what he wants you or her. I think his not in to you, if he can cheat on you and his son or daughter. you are a child of GOD and you deserve the best. A child is a gift of God, and your husband is blessed to have a loyal wife and a new baby. I would stay with my mother until he shapes up. Believe me, if he really love you he will come running home.
been there done that
2006-09-08 17:27:03 · answer #3 · answered by m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not easy to be a single mother by no mean but a lot of woman are doing it and they're doing just fine,you need to decide what you want to do with the situation you in,it's your choice to stay in that relationship and let that men cheating on you and you turn your head the other way or you move on with yr life and raise yr child alone the best you can with him also paying you child support of course,It's your relationship and your life .
2006-09-08 17:11:08 · answer #4 · answered by jolie minouche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to help yourself and move on with life.Raise your baby and be the best mom you can be.He will realize that he messed up and will try to come back.The question is will you want him back.Good luck, I now it's hard but you can do it.
2006-09-08 17:59:47 · answer #5 · answered by missmadhatter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you need to divorce him. If he is cheating now he will always cheat. You dont need that around your baby. And if you divorce him it will be his fault cause he is cheating and you will get money to help support your baby.
2006-09-08 17:04:22 · answer #6 · answered by sweethonesty1699 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. Show him what he lost. And show him what it's like to only see his child and you on certain days instead of everyday because of his actions.
2006-09-08 17:07:24 · answer #7 · answered by sweetpea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learning how to spell husband, as well as a number of other words, may help him realize that you're not an idiot and he won't cheat on you anymore.
2006-09-08 17:02:58 · answer #8 · answered by Justin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you can get him back get a divorce and then after everything is final tell him its not his, when he go for pat test and finds out its his you say April fools mo fo
2006-09-08 17:10:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, do what is best for you and the baby. Remember he cheated you didn't.
2006-09-08 17:06:30 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋