2006-09-08 10:00:39 · 11 answers · asked by irnmick 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
talk to her and tell her how you feel. Show her that you love her and prove that you can support the child.
However, always remember that it is not you who will suffer through pregnancy, lose your waist, and have to take time off school or work after giving birth. The final choice is hers, and nobody else can have a say
2006-09-08 10:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by jimbell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she wants an abortion first off. Really listen to her answer. Take into account her feelings and try to be as understanding as possible. If she doesn't want to keep the baby maybe you could talk to her about putting it up for adoption. Either way the decision is hers. She may not feel ready to be a mother yet. She could be afraid that she will run from the responsibility or that you will run when she needs you most. I hope it works out for both of you but remember in the end the decision is hers.
2006-09-10 04:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by Joey R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and tell her you will take full custody of the baby if she will not reason with you take her to court and yes hon you can take her to court over the baby.
A friend of mine was in the same situation and he asked our friends dad who is an attorney what he could do and he said he could take her to court and fight and even if he were to lose it can still help because getting a court date can take weeks to months and in till you go to court she can not have an abortion and hopefully by the time that happens it will be no longer legal for her to have an abortion.
By the time my friend went to court his GF was 3 months pregnant so she was not legally able to have an abortion so now she is 8 months pregnant and once the baby is born she is signing her rights away and giving the baby to my friend.
When you talk to her you should add abortion is dangerous and she can die from it not to mention it can screw her up to where she can never get pregnant again, my cousins ex fiance had one and something went wrong so now she can never have kids
2006-09-08 10:29:38 · answer #3 · answered by Diamonds_Glow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sorry man. I'm not to sure there is anything you can do. I believe that that choice should be made between the both of you. I am also against abortion for the most part. Try talking to her and assure her that your not going anywhere and that you will be there for the both of them. Or tell her that she can just give the baby to you.
2006-09-08 10:16:07 · answer #4 · answered by Debbie B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel that you love her and want to keep the baby but remember if she does have the baby you have to remember you have to support them and they will be the only thing that matters in you life if you tell her how you feel make sure you are ready for the baby or else the baby will ruin your life!!!!!!
Good luck do what you think is right
Cali
2006-09-08 10:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by cali13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I know to tell you is to talk to her. Try to explain how you feel, and let her know you will be there for her and the baby. You will help her. And do it quickly before she makes a huge mistake
2006-09-08 10:24:22 · answer #6 · answered by mommylee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this day and age you don't have much of a say so. your only option is to beg and tell her her much you love her yadda yadda yadda. With that said. Why the hell would you want to be with someone contemplating on murdering your unborn child?
2006-09-08 10:19:42 · answer #7 · answered by firegurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can sit down and talk to her and let her know how you feel, hoping she might change her mind. But if she decides to go ahead with it there is nothing that you can actually do.
2006-09-08 10:27:43 · answer #8 · answered by CHOCOLATE_SCORP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told her how you feel? Explain to her how much you love her and ensure her everything will be ok and that you will be there to help her raise your child. Maybe she's scared you won't be there. I hope everything works out for you!
2006-09-08 10:15:28 · answer #9 · answered by cirnrab 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU MAKE IT CLEAR TO HER THAT YOU WANT TO KEEP THE BABY LET HER NO EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL YOU MUST TELL HER THIS IS YOUR BABY 2 DONT JUST SIT THER AND WATCH HER GET RID OF IT I DONT NO ABOUT YOU BUT I SEE ABORTION AS MURDER BUT ALSO REMEMBER SHE IS ALSO CONFUSED BOUT EVERYFIN SO GO EASY ON HER AND REMEMBER ITS HER BODY BUT YOU DEFFO GOT TO TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL
2006-09-08 10:18:03 · answer #10 · answered by mummy to 3 miracles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋